Dialogue is to discover

 

 Calls (the human ones) to the path of your Sir with wisdom and a beautiful exhortation; it talks to them in benevolent way, because your Sir is the most knowing thing of the one who avoids His path, as well as the most knowing of the directed ones is. (16- "AN NÁHL" : 125 )

Dialogue is to discover 

Dialogue more that a "Right"  is a "DUTY"

Dialogue is more than to talk. Dialogue is to hear wath to other, with attention, to explain the view point.  Dialogue is a characteristic that only human have. so need to use. Dialogue is To respect the others in their total characteristc, for to teach and to learn together.

The more we advance in the discovery of the other, the more the tensions will replace by ties of  truste friendship/partnership, the love, trustly justice and peace.

The IMPORTANCE OF the DIALOG

WITHOUT HIM THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP; IT is THE BRIDGE THAT JOINS THE PERSONS; IT EXPLAINS FEELINGS, EXPECTATIONS AND INTERESTS; IT MAKES ANY TRUE AND LASTING RELATION; IT ENABLES US RESPECTING THE OPINIONS OF OTHERS; IT MAKES US SUITABLE ENTERING IN the WORLD OF OTHER WITH EDUCATION; IT TEACHES US SEEING IN OTHER A PERSON DIFFERENT FROM WHAT WE ARE, BUT NONETHELESS BAD OR GOOD; It is THE FOUNDATION OF ANY RELATIONSHIP; THE MORE TO EXIST INSIDE the RELATIONS, THE BIGGER THE PROXIMITY BETWEEN THEM; ESSENTIAL TOOL IN the CONSTRUCTION OF the LOVE; IT IS AN EXCHANGE OF IMPRESSIONS, FEELINGS, JOYS AND SORROWS; IT IS A WAY OF MAKING EASY THE DEBAUCHERY OF the NEGATIVE FEELINGS; INVEST IN the DIALOG...

 TAKE THE DECISION OF TALKING EVERY DAY IF TO IF; DO NOT LET ACCUMULATE SEVERAL SITUATIONS THAT DO NOT PLEASE YOU; ENJOY OF the POWER OF the DIALOG, OF the FRANK CONVERSATION; BE COMPROMISED BY THE DIALOG...


 BEGIN TALKING AND BEING TRUE WITH YOU SAME, LISTENING TO THE TRUTH OF OTHER: SO THEY WILL FIND, JOINED THE WAY OF the TRUTH; DO NOT STOP DIVIDING HIS THOUGHTS, SPECIALLY THOSE WHO REFER TO YOUR RELATION; SAY WHAT YOU WAIT AND WHAT IT HAS BEEN FEELING; THERE IS NOT WAITING WHAT ANOTHER ADVINHE WHAT HE WANTS, SINCE NOBODY HAS THIS OBLIGATION.
 DO NOT FORGET THAT, GOD GAVE US THE GIFT OF the SPEECH...
 THINK ABOUT that AND HIS LIFE USES MORE THE VOICE FOR DIRECIONAR!
 BELIEVE...

 The DIALOG IS ESSENTIAL.

Dialog: Other can Feel ours heart at the same time that from someone to who we give does to us in such a way well to the health, brings us such peace, which there even are therapies, which "force" persons to the dialog ".

A good dialog helps to feel many dimensions of the love: the easiness to receive and to give, the sensibility for the suffering of other, the availability for the joy of be amusing and the depth of the gentleness.

It is how to say to him: " Look, here I am so that you will want, of heart opened for you ". What implicates to accept to be rejected. Badly interpreted. To run this risk of " being knots themselves " and to accept other like him is, e then to grow joined.

 Like expression of an unconditional love that lives in us – and of what we are not afraid, because we look at it like anything that really frees us.

 The sincere dialog offers that it is that of the understanding. Of the attention. Of the solidarity. Of the true matching friendship, which exists for there of the agitation of the senses, only because of having the consistency of what it flows of the bottom of our ourselves and what is maintained wants that it is sunny wants that it rains.

 When a heart opens for other heart, be nearly always one anyone amazes what can happen.
Or, the any more do not be, a sensation of possible peace, in this world full of wars in which we live, where the false have more value that the trusty.

Through dialogue we learn to respect the human person, their values, their culture, their legitimate autonomy, self-determination.

Through dialogue we learn to look beyond ourselves in order to understand and appreciate what is good in others.

Through dialogue we learn to contribute to sustainable growth and fair.

Through dialogue we learn to become a permanent feature of solidarity in the world in which we live.

Through dialogue we learn to do a value of  every relationship without borders.

16-"AN NÁHL" 127-128: Be patient, that your patience will be taken into account by God; do not feel sorry for them, do not distress yourself for his conspiracies,
 
 Because God is with the anxious ones, and with the benefactors!

The eyes of the beholder

One day a father of family rich, powerful businessman, took his son to travel to a village with the firm purpose to show how the
People can be poor.

The goal was to convince the son the need to value material possessions he owned, status, social prestige, since his father wanted
early to pass these values to your heirs.

They stayed one day and one night in a small mud huts, a dweller the farm of his cousin ...

When returning from the trip, the father asked his son:

- Hey, big son, as was the Travel for you?

- Very good, Dad.

- Did you see the difference between living with wealth and live in poverty?

- Yes father! Replied the son thoughtfully.

- And what you have learned, with everything you've seen that place so very poor?

The boy replied:

- He is the father, I saw that we have only one cat, and they have four.

We have a pool that reaches to the middle of the garden, they have a creek that has no end.

We have a covered porch and lit with fluorescent lights and they have the stars and moon in the sky.

Our backyard goes to the entrance gate and they have a forest piece.

We have some canaries in a cage they have all the birds that nature can offer them, loose!

The son sighed and continued:

- And besides, Dad, I noticed that they pray before every meal, while we at home, sit at the table talking about business,
Dollar, social events, then eat, push the plate and voila!

In the room where I sleep with Tonio, I shame, because not even know to pray, while he knelt and thanked God for everything, including our visit at their house. At home, go to the room, lie down, watch TV and sleep.

Another thing, Dad, I slept on the network Tonho while he slept on the floor because there was a network for each of us.

In our house we put Maristela, our maid to sleep in that room where we keep debris, no comfort, though we have soft beds and fragrant left. Also, only you  go to visit Maristela at night and we hear our mother crying. And you teached to us  that this  is the correct.

But in that house, Tonio house, don't have some worker. They do everything together. His father sleep and joke with them and mother. They pray together. Travel together.  Everything, dad, they make together.

As the boy spoke, his father was bemused, embarrassed and ashamed.

The son in his wisdom and ingenuity in their bright outburst, stood up, hugged his father and added:

- Thanks Dad, for I have shown how poor we are!


MORAL OF THE STORY:

Not what you have, where it is or what it does, that will determine your happiness, but what you think about it! Whatever you have, depends on how you look, the way you value. If you have love and survive in this life with dignity, have positive attitudes with kindness and sharing your stuff, so ... You have everything!