Begin in infancy to give your child everything he /she wants. So, when you grow up, he will believe that the world has an obligation to give you everything you want.
Do not demand that he assume his responsibilities. Do everything in his place. Take everything for him (her)
Let - the idea of change, and leave the responsibilities with other people. Do not say anything when you discover that he is with missing people and himself.
Let him take, childhood, all relatives, old. Do not blame yourself.
Help the radical attitudes. Do not teach that "respect" is in the "middle ground, consensus"
Help to use every mean of one sentence for make damage to the other and to theirself. Are not your problems what will be with he/she
Do not listen, look no knowledge of his/her actions (it). And to help he/she do not want to knowabout others lifes, what are not inside of the home.
Be selfish, in your acts, for she/he do acts same you.
When he denigrate people find grace. That will be considered interesting, and above all things.
Never give him any spiritual guidance, according to the Mitchell Principles. Leave the religious Lider decide for him or he "decide for yourself".
Take everything he played leaving books, shoes, clothes. Do not demand that he (she) returns to correct errors .. Do everything for him so he learns to play on others all responsibility.
Discuss frequently in his presence, never open to sincere dialogue, with real vision of values. So not be too shocked when the home is torn down later and learn the way to undo his own family.
Give him all the money he wants. Never let him earn his own money. Never let it go through the experience of the difficulties. Why did he have to go through the same difficulties you went through? To experience he needs to "fight and win"?
Satisfy all your desires for food, drink and comfort. Deny may cause harmful frustrations. So he believe that "the easiest way is correct," and will be the slave of desires.
Take his side against neighbors, teachers, friends, honest people, people who want to actually help against wives, against all that they can "let him nervous or irritated" by requiring him more work and effort. (After everyone has ill will toward her baby.)
When he gets into some serious trouble, give this excuse: "I could never master it. But people are very radical with my son!"Concorde when faced with difficulties, he seek the path of ease, leaving the duties, people leave, leave, leave what you're doing. After all life is short, and your child needs to live, others do not. So he will always be in the hands of the world, and will not have control over your own life and enough responsibility with others.
On occasions where he is reunited with his buddies or siblings use and abuse of the comparisons that incite dispute. Make blackmail. Teach him to blackmail.
Compare his character, his intellectual capacity, and their aesthetic skills; say out loud and clear for all to hear, he even things like, "My son is smarter than the other, it's beautiful, is smarter, is a genius. "So she, believe that the value is in beauty and characteristics worthless. And busacará not improve.
Demand that he respects only religion, after all, people do not have values, if not perfect.
If you have an addiction, it shows in his presence every day. Thus he will find it all natural, and sure enough, later, will hear their reproaches about the evils that can bring these imperfections and find normal, he even criticize people when they have no vices.
Hide yourself. Lie, cheat, do everything for him (her) to understand that truth has no value.
Help him (her) to hide, people, to be ashamed of him (her) the same, be ashamed to learn from the lessons of life. Help to hide him (her) when people call to bear responsibilities acquired.
Help committing crimes against himself. Afianl all God pardon everything, just ask pardon and done.
Teach tter afraid to correct things. Fear of facing life in times of difficulties and repsonsabilidade. Teach to abandon ship in the storm alone and go swimming the other way, leaving the crew adrift from the abyss. Afianal accounts of his life (it) is more important than the other.
Stay away from people who are sincere, honest, when they are in difficulties MOMENTS. Thus, he (she) see the world as they are all "customers", and money is what matters.
Never make plans with he (she) and others involved in the set.
Afainal all, never need the assistance of the other, and you're high enough.
Never help he (she) when trying to recover errors, correct. Make leave everything and get a new path for all. After all, for stability in relations and in business?
Teach that "facilities" is more important than making money, so hard.
Teach to desist from all good deeds. After all is waste of time, dealing with other people, which sends AllahCC to take care.
When there are debts that he (she) acquired on behalf of others. Make them away from others. Afianl all, others were wrong in trying to help.
Applaud the radical attitudes. For being radical, will be covering errors. And it is not necessary to solve. To think of others?
Make frames, so that he (she) is never discovered. Hide she (he)
from the others, the mush you can. To be fair and honest in this world?
Befriend the people s by financial interests only. Never because they are, provavelment, souls, from AllahCC to help in the future, and the importance is the "now" . Of course , After all, this is not important to care about others for long time, to have patience , and be firmily in the projects ... Allah cc are not important to your life. then to him (her), also, can learn this with the time. not now.
Never help when she/he complain of mistreatment. Be radical. Never seek to know all sides of the story. After all, you're busy and he needs to learn to deal with differences and do not need protection, true.
Done it all, prepare yourself for a lifetime of disappointment, in this life and in the next. It is certainly more than deserved your fate, destiny for make others have merity for be in sheythan hands!
may Allah CC help us stay in the correct way, using the knowledge from Allah CC for do all benefities , be help, do wells as much we can do in this life, without hide us from others, taking hands for to get victories to Allah CC amin amin amin