Generosity (duty to muslims) is to help a deserving person without his request....
and if you help him after his request, then it will be either out from  self-respect , for to avoid rebuke and humiliation.      So, care the others without to humiliate.

~hz ALI (r.a.)

 


ya Allah cc ...help us be always forever closed as fingers in a unic hand, helping each to other... commanded by Yours Wills , Geting every Favors from You amin