Reflexion : misunderstanding and prejudice..

 

 

Allah cc my owner, please, help us to have more understanding between us, your slaves, inside of our family, to help each to other be strong in our faith, showing , always the right way. Allah cc , Al Ali Al Hadi Al Jabbar, please, help us in this journey to have more care with who are by side us. 

Please protect us from what doesn't recognized You, our Sir, Protect , please our ear, thoughts, words, eyes,"to look" and heart. Allah cc Sir of the all things , of the universe, please, give understanding , dialog , faith strong, peace , vitories to my family, from you. And help me,please in particular to stay, always on the right way, and be good muslimimam, amin. 

Thakyou my Lord Allah CC Al Hadi bcs my family. forgive us, about all mistakes done, protect us from the ENVIES AND ENVIOUS, from the FITNA, please, from those who have, in their hearts, the vengeance, because ,Our Allah cc , they don't know You. Allah cc please protect the heart of my family...and please, that their family regnize his effort and help him to have peace for to care all us, who are needing him so much

Ya Raybby, please  , give to Ummah the true love inside of our heart. inshAllah Allah cc amin   

There are many persons who love the power, and  rare others what has the power to love

TO THINK: 

There was a blind girl who hated herself because of being blind.
She hated everyone except her boyfriend!
One day she said she could see the world, she would marry her boyfriend. On a lucky day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her! Then her boyfriend asked her, "Now you can see, you marry me?
The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend was blind! She said: I'm sorry, but I can not marry you because you're blind! The boyfriend away from her in tears said: Please, just take good care of my eyes, they were very important to me ...
Never look down on those who love you! Sometimes people make certain sacrifices and we don't  turn, don't know, don't care about.

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The daily pré-judgment is one of the attitudes more pernicious than the human being eventually could have, since to be previous to a fact doing a daily pay-judgment can be harmful, and a lot of of the times it brings consequences and irreversible "sequels".
 
 In the same sense, daily pay to judge very often can be fatal, since while learning about this fact, the wrapped will be able to break definitely the knots of affection, so much as regards his/her personal life how much forever, bringing damages very often irreparable.

LOGGER AND FOX

      A woodsman woke up every morning at 6 am and worked all day cutting wood, only stopping  late at night. He had a beautiful son a few months  and a fox, her friend, treated like pet pussy  and his complete confidence. Every day, the woodcutter    - Who was a widower - was going to work and left the fox looking after the baby. By evening, Fox was happy with his arrival.

     
Systematically, the neighbors, friends and family,  woodcutter's warned that the fox was a wild animal, and therefore was not reliable. When you feel hungry eat the child. The woodcutter said that was a big nonsense, since the fox was his friend and  would never do that. Neighbors insisted: Woodman, open your eyes! The fox will eat your child.  When she goes hungry devour her child!

     
One day, the woodcutter, exhausted  from work and tired of these comments came   the house and saw the fox smiling as always, with   totally bloody mouth. The woodcutter sweat  cold, and without thinking twice, gave a blow to head Fox. The fox was killed instantly.

     
Desperate, he ran in the room. He found his son in the crib, sleeping quietly, and, beside the cradle, a huge  dead snake.

          Don't look the facts with the eyes or with words by others........... we are not Allah(cc). The persons
          are not  what our eyes can to see. think about.

Pre-trial: a sin! 

 The pre-trial is one of the most pernicious attitudes that humans can possibly have, therefore anticipate a truly making a pre-trial may be harmful, and very often has consequences and "sequels" irreversible.

In the same vein, pre-judging can often be fatal, because upon learning this fact, the involved could finally break the bonds of affection, both in terms of their personal and professional life, causing often irreparable damage.
Is very important to become aware and always think that the life needs and values people with typical characteristics such as transparency, ethics, honesty. Are also welcome people who can collaborate, share, relate and work in teams, people who donate to actually work towards  in fact, not wasting time with ugly acts. A thoughtless dismissal based solely on prior judgments, the act is so damaging as the actual pre-trial. Such attitudes serve to tarnish the image , which will compromise with the life, so those who crave stability in the life should be aware of your attitudes and behaviors, because these are the two pillars that sustain and / or dismiss and even exclude the same.
The theme, however, raises the importance of remembering that any pre-trial, as the name implies, is a precondition,  held prior to the finding of truth-telling of the facts. Thus, it is pure speculation, not, only,  from mere hasty deductions, which may contain numerous failures due to no real knowledge of experienced fact, quite away from the truth.

It is worth noting that many times the obstacles and all the existential confusion about the pre-trial, there are only the head of the pre-judging, not from 'storms into cups of water, "which allows the pre-judging only suffer in advance and make decisions "wrong."
This time, it is indisputable that the person is being prejudged, while aware of the pre-trial should have much wisdom and emotional balance to make a reflection on the event and people involved also, the condition. You should check this fact calmly, having emotional control over what they think and verbalize, thereby avoiding making new pre-judgments. Also, must score what value the pre-judging it to you, as well as for your company, and the wisdom and greatness of overlook this fact in view of the benefits arising from that employee at any given time prior to this fact.

Anyway, the best way for don't do the pre-trial is to always maintain a transparent behavior, which together with humility, empathy, respect for others, always have with others around an open and frank dialogue, in this way, all to clarify the facts, everything is solved, because it recognizes the possible mistakes and successes, and then return to a harmonious atmosphere, preventing future wear and tear, such attitudes contribute to the improvement of productivity, because only Allah(cc) know everything , the real motives.

It is crucial to realize that pointing fingers at others is too easy, difficult is putting yourself in the other, trying to find out the reasons and motives that led him to pursue such actions. So before making a pre-trial and / or condemn someone, we have to think and rethink a lot, besides maintaining a transparent dialogue with the stakeholder.

It is indisputable fact that pre-trial, and did not receive any of the parties - the accused and accuser - is always harmful, and mostly unfair, due to the fact that we still do not have the knowledge to light the truth of facts and based only on assumptions and prior judgments.

  To be struck, however, the fact  is that people ignore the fact that, whoever, is with her/his feet on the ground is subject to all. Every persons must look elsewhere. If today you pre-judge someone in the life, this person maybe tomorrow important to your life at another time, so many turns to give life, because Allah(cc) wrote all way, and again, need to say: we are not Allah(cc) , so that, we don't know our "tomorrow". Thus, every care is scarce. Thus proceeding, we must monitor our behaviors, attitudes, and especially our speech, to prevent further disturbances in our personal, also, professonal life.

It's a big mistake to think that we will be in the "podium" forever. Worse is to have the illusion to imagine that just by being in the "podium", we have the right to pre-judge someone. Ironic mistake.

 *  tells the truth, even that  is against you. (Koran) Before beginning to criticize the defects of others, it enumerates at least ten of yours.

 * * you Must appreciate the affection of the truthful  who loves you with the truth, which takes the risk of provoking yours hatred while attracting your attention for your weaknesses and lacks; so we are all so frivolous that we only realize qualities in us ourselves and only we like hearing praises. So our imperfections seen by all, are for us ignored and they accompany us up to the end of the life. And nine in ten, we hate the one who in - las reveals, even with the intention of benefiting us.

 to think:

 Censor the person in individual and  praises them in public.

 The number of persons that can benefit us is very small. But almost any one can damage us. Then, give values to the one who " takes risks " for ... to be with you.

 Try to be a valuable person instead of trying to be a person  of success. The success, reality, will happen when you to have value.

 If you cannot be the Sun, be a planet, but never stop radiating the light that lives in his heart.

 It gathers the roses while they are alive; tomorrow they will not be like today.

 

Allah cc my owner, please, help us to have more understanding between us, your slaves, inside of our family, to help each to other be strong in our faith, showing , always the right way. Allah cc , Al Ali Al Hadi Al Jabbar, please, help us in this journey to have more care with who are by side us. 

Please protect us from what doesn't recognized You, our Sir, Protect , please our ear, thoughts, words, eyes,"to look" and heart. Allah cc Sir of the all things , of the universe, please, give understanding , dialog , faith strong, peace , vitories to my family, from you. And help me,please in particular to stay, always on the right way, and be good muslimimam, amin. Thakyou my Lord Allah CC Al Hadi bcs my family. forgive us, about all mistakes done, protect us from the ENVIES AND ENVIOUS, from the FITNA, please, from those who have, in their hearts, the vengeance, because ,Our Allah cc , they don't know You. Allah cc please protect the heart of my family...and please, that their family regnize his effort and help him to have peace for to care all us, who are needing him so much

Ya Raybby, please  , give to Ummah the true love inside of our heart. inshAllah Allah cc amin