When a person wants to help, REALLY: BEGIN WITH THE RESPECT
Do not tell to the other " what this one must do ", without knowing ", before, and be sure HOW is in fact his life / of her.
( only can know , who are near of the hearts. remember of this. because you can live with persons and this persons do not knownothing about you, never)
We have to be careful not to "injure" the persons.
Think, before speaking.
If wanna be a HELP do this WITH WHAT THE PERSON IS ASKING
(ALLAH SWT, SPEAKS IN the HEARTS OF the PERSONS, AND IT SHOWS THE TRUTH, THE CERTAIN WAY; THE NECESSARY MEDICINE, FOR THAT THAT SUBMIT it you ALLAH SWT, AND HEAR ALLAH SWT)
Think:
Is an absurd to speak for the one who " has not to eat ", to buy the car of the year?
Is it absurd " to speak cruelties " about THOSE are beloved to us?
Is am cruelty to make a person be far from her/his Family, when she/he have not nobody. Only hae that family. and needing so much?
Is a correct to lie about the way, tho who are loss? Also, to lie is correct?
Is it absurd to speak for someone with " broken legs, to run?
Know... we need be more sensitive. Have more care and respet to the others.
Sadaqa do not mean "only money" . This is a act by respect .
Pain so much , when person are needing care, and hear from the others discharges words or offensive words, or words of scorn. or do not hear nothing from those are the direction in the life ...
My Allah CC help all us be better muslimimam each day for to reach You, please. Many thanks because of the blessed family from You, Allahim. and , please, help us to have more understandings and care each to the others.inshAllah amin