Common life is a school. everyone should respect each others boundaries, knowledge, humor, needs. Children to respect their parents and relatives, the wife respect her husband and his command over the family .. Understanding that all make mistakes because we do not know everything. But to REspect the Lider of the family is fundamental. the Lider (husband) is the command from Allah Cc to the family,, our protection from Allah CC. So we will respect Allah CC Command. just so, like in school, learn together, and we can move on "from Allah cc tests "