if u you have compromised a lot , then is Allahcc Permition for u to prove our capacity, also, know that u have a lot of capacity;; to prove to Allahcc your faith and that you have merities for to take the blessings..
just try to clean from your mind, thoughts, heart all prejudices (acquired due to an education, maybe, failure) and do leave who are asking you for be help, then you help be help...bcs of , is AllahCC permiton for u have opportunity for to reach the goals what AllahCC wrote to u.
And ALlahCC provide the helppers from His Mercy.
Just stay with faith... Keep who are made by AllahCC, for be by side , near or far... share the all matters to solve... get solution together, ask AllahCC the Permition , and never left who are waitting u , loyal, to who you are the priority in this life... and is in this live, for/to/bcs of You...
And AllahCC know the best