Be human, be honest with Allahcc. Take care of your duties from Allahcc. No shame , no fears.
Allahcc give support to those are truste in mission, in duties reals.
We Must Remain cognizant of collegues Both men and women are Allah's creations. And que Allahcc would never oppress any of His creatures. He prepares each of His creations to the purpose que he intends for it and it bestows upon the innate abilities needed to Carry Out que purpose. A man can, and it is his duty, caring for the community (outside and indoors) to the example of the prophets and more of our Prophet (saas) Therefore, he can not, should not, hide, denro home, being a slave to a woman and leave the world, and its external liabilities, written by Allahcc to his life. A woman should stay at home, take care of the house, the family, the husband and be Obedient. Never try to be an obstacle in ALlahcc purposes for the life of her husband. It may work to help. The man can marry four times, according to the Will of Allahcc. Therefore, should stand firm not to fall into traps of the world, but be firm and do not submit to the trainees of the family of the woman or her. He must remember that he is "slave Allahcc", is not a slave to a woman or another man. However, you should take care of people, creatures that ALlahcc sent to him care, even, and many more, those are not the inside of his home, his Needing care by Allahcc Wills. And never give up ("Men are the qawwamun of women ..."). The family in the house, already suported because it has the necessary care. Why this should keep up with total respect to ALlahcc.
Allahcc would never oppress any of His creatures. Allahcc prepares each of His creations to the purpose that He intends for it and bestows upon it the innate abilities needed to carry out that purpose.
The future community, created within the home, will be in accordance with the sample obtained. Therefore, make sure that you are the example as "who took care of all responsibilities from Allahcc", "did not abandon others to satisfy one what in protected at home"; lived with respect and became respected and never acted like a coward or lies,
took care of other honorable wives, woman full faith, many more if is far and care parents, did not accept innovations in Islam (such as marriage or divorce by sms or email> this is biggest lie, inovation que soul broke faith, kill lives). Helped Those Allahcc be sent is Helped by you, have never needed the shame for what is right, not the leaved honestly the human is to take yours from another friend, because of her or because of the budy persuation from your friends. Allahcc is more important than everything, then more important than yourself, in your mission in this life.
Fear have shame when in front o Allahcc, so, do not be coward in win jihad for care those are from Allahcc by side you, even far, because of Allah CC knows everything, and give enought protection and ways for those have cowrage for to protect other one what have real needings . Make the ummah what is inside of your house, respect you and know that you are a Truste Slave to Allah cc, and will do all as need to Allahcc , and never do everything as they wishe by devil care. Do not lose opportunity for to prove to Allahcc that you are enought for to see Allahcc without shame. mantain your duty to the others. Marriage is just a convencion, where 1 get benefity more than other, if not from ALlahcc. But is bigest lesson , mission hard, when is Made by Allahcc Wills, in the soul life, real family.
Unfortunable, in the current times, a lot of man make their brothers to marry with their sisters for to be free from ths responsabilities, without care about Allahcc Wills , without care about nothing, just selfish for do not need waste money with. Others do so, for be closed of a person for get workers to him. Others do so, for to promote separation between couples made by Allahcc, because of envy. Others , so so, for to promote their self as religious liders, and show to the comunity their power inside of the comunity (they use Allahcc name for to promote their self, sale books, show their face in tv, net, etc, but in the fact they are used by sheythan for to broke ways of Allahcc to lifes . Doing business with the religion)) , Anyway , This is the world.... important is the real muslism be carefully, and never leave those was before, for care about pleasure of those came after.