Generosity is to help a deserving person without his request, and if you help him after his request, then it is either out of self-respect or to avoid rebuke.
if do not reached the victory, is because have some point important, did left .
~hz ALI (ra.)
There are only two options in life: be resigned with the loss or indignant, then, back, re-view, learn where the wrong was, then replan, going up to the victory, with faith. Do not forget: Allahcc always here, by side, knows everything, DO NOT BE LAZY NOR NEGATIVE!