NEVER GIVE UP
"If a PARTNER OF THE LIFE (BY ALLAH CC), MAKE A MISTAKE ... err, find 77 excuses for him CORRECTING AND HELP ... If your heart is unable to do this, then know that the defect is in YOURself. "
 "If you find something you do not likeYOUR  brother OR SISTER, try to find 77 excuses for him. And if you can not find an excuse, say:" There may be an excuse, but I do not know. "SO WHO IS ME FOR judge ? I COULD TEACH THE CORRECT  OR IS ME THE WRONG?

 is the duty of the Muslim guide and direct the brother who is in error, and this must be done with care , patience , wisdom and gentleness .
► Do not envy that Allah has given to his brother . Rejoice for the blessing he received ;
► Do not gossip about her brother . The Quran illustrates this attitude as follows:
" O you who believe , avoid suspicion as much as possible , because some suspicions imply sin. Espreiteis ye not , neither backbite one another . Which of you would be able to eat the flesh of his dead brother ? Such attitude repulses you ! Fear God for He is Oft-Returning , Most Merciful . " [ Qur'an 49:12 ]
The Prophet said : " He who truly believes in Allah and the last day ( judgment ) , should speak good or keep silent " ( Bukhari , Muslim) ;
► Being gay and gentle in speech, and avoid arrogance ;
► Advise your brother and take your advice too. The Quran says :
" ... And help one another mutually , in the goodness and mercy. " [ Qur'an 5:2 ]
► Do not grudge your brother and not prolong the disagreement . The Prophet said : " It is not fair that a man leave (leave to communicate ) his brother for more than three days" ( Bukhari , Muslim) ;
► Thank favors his brother offers . The Prophet said : "Whoever does not thank people , does not thank God " ( Ahmad , Tirmidhi ) ;
► Comply with all the promises you make . The Prophet said : " Never promise something to your brother and then break the promise , because this makes love turn to hate " ;
► Encourage harmony and love. Umar , one of the first caliphs of Islam and Muslims , said : " There are three things that will ensure the love between you and your brother ; greet him with Salaam whenever the view , provide space for he feels when he comes a meeting and call it with the name or nickname dearest to your heart " ;
► Have your brother know of your affection for him . The Prophet said : " When a man loves his brother , he should tell him you love him " ( Abu Daud , Tirmidhi ) .