Hz Ali (ra) , because of the said: betrayal, and many disagreements, When some blessings come to you, not the drive through thanklessness Them away.when fear: Do not retreat! When the subject is other life: That life is worth the life of all mankind!
Everything , every plan, every peoples  whats look is difficult, take time , more than you accept,  is Blessing by Allah(swt), for to prove your Patience and Submission. 
Mismatches occur, because of the lack of a sincere dialogue, clear , objective advisor .... without fear or fears, but ... with Compassion, Faith, TENDERNESS .... AIMING bolster NEEDS OF ALL PARTIES. NO MORAL OR MATERIAL DAMAGE ....
Stand with your heart, mind, eyes, ears open, and also the soul, when "a human ask some word of advice"
If does so, is because values ​​You ... as gift. Needing knowledge from You. And Knowledge is blessing from Allahcc , for to use in goodness!
But to keep up READY, and fulfill the Will by Allahcc ..
Never wills, internal, caused by internal feelings, negative: a (made by sheythan)
So do not be afraid to go back and correct support, who cries for "your help, your presence"... Get soon, and done: Allahcc will always give Favors, Blessings to Those Who are Godly, Humble, truthful, loyal ...elhamdulillah. Also all godness we , this is to our ownner soul, when in front of The Al Wali Allahcc.

Alla1in Al Jabbar, i claim Your Refuge to he (family from You) to all us, souls family , be joined giving out very best for to support each to other for reach Your Pardon and Blessings amin amin amin