thinking about: if some batle are loss, everybody what have relation with the soldiers what loss, will be in suffering, too. Then , even those are not in the "batle camp", ans stayed in house, are directly responsable for the victory be done. But the lider MUST BE Respected.
Easy to understand: just remember the history of our beloved prophet Mohammad (saw), that elhamdulillah left the best sample to us about everybody be joined, and Respecting our Allah CC.
Other sample is the history of ourProphet Moses who remained in the desert for 40 years, because of "non compliance , Non faith and selfishness of the Jewish people '
So it is with families, businesses, groups and other social matters . Talk and talk, criticize, have pre-conceived ideas, labeling people, draw conclusions, without even giving each other the opportunity to "explain" ...... all this does not solve problems, not the results, does not prepare an effective design.
The dialog is to listen, understand, be heard, understood, replay doubts, ask, orientate, review pllan together, even exhaustively, even if needs more time. But BEFORE everything, RESPECT Allah CC law, as a rule, first of all. Respect for each other, and respect the time, the ability of the other (less or more), their knowledge and needs. make and re-make plan, with PATIENCE. Study strategies . Knowing that , even so, can be that, inside of the batle, will need re-plan, because of Only Allah CC know everything, we can guess, from the experience from the live, o and some knowledge, only.
remembering , always, that, for all victorie sent by Allah CC, the win is of each one what was involved
for each defeat, all involved are equally responsibles, also the benefities profities mus be equal. no one more than others .
Equality is one of the Principles in the islam for have respect to Allah CC.
Also, THIS IS SUNNA.
Our belove Prophet MOhammad (saw) said, "The best among you (Muslims) are those who learn the Qur'an and teach it."“And serve thy Lord (hellping each to others, our duties) until there come unto thee the hour that is Certain.” (Hijr, 15/99)