Bismillah ir-Rahman ir-Rahim
" That what will do a good, wants that it is of the weight of an atom., will see it; and that what will do an evil, wants that it is of the weight of an atom, he will see it. " (99th Surata, verses 7 and 8)
I am reading , in a continuum process "to live".. like everybody, i believe that i am human, and human have
the life for to learn , all the time, no important their age, if man or woman, age, from where are, economical situation, brain.. so, everybody are here for to learn and have capacity for to exchange, in all moment of the life;and, for to have good way, and goods transformations, need of the others . I mean, one learn with others, and all the creations from Allah, are sample to us, in this great school. Nobody are better than others. Only different.
The separation is not the goodness bcs when is between two souls in mission by Allah cc, then it is high badness. wrong or right
We need, in all moment, to remember the law from our Creator , reading the Quran,also Let's observe the caution of the Rasul Allah ( Hadith , Sunna)
In the Quran there are explanations and examples for those what for him they want to rule his lives, and exhortation for the one who has heart and is disposed accepting it, and giving evidence. It reveals the inalterable Law of Allah, want that it is in the perdition of the mislaid ones, he wants that it is in the salvation of the directed ones.
It teaches that the world of the men, in the course of the centuries, is only beneficial with the Allah's religion; that the humanity, which he wants what it does, will not reach the longed happiness not to be illuminated, driving with the Divine Message.
There are revelations of the future on the day of the Resurrection, on the future life, in the day in which the men will congregate near the Sir of the Universe.
" That what will do a good, wants that it is of the weight of an atom., will see it; and that what will do an evil, wants that it is of the weight of an atom, he will see it. " (99th Surata, verses 7 and 8)
There is the judgment of the problems and of the questions where there is pressing an explanation and a directive of the way following, what concerns the questions of the belief and of the thought, of the character and of the behavior, of the economical relations, of the branches doctrinaires , of the personal judgments or not: " Oh human, already a convincing proof of your Sir brought you near and we send to you a translucent Light. " (4th Surata, verse 174) " Looks Them the day in which we will make appearing a witness of each people to testify against his, which we will present to you for witness against yours.
We you have been revealing, so, the Book that is an explanation of everything, it is a guide, compassion and patronage for the Muslims. " (16th Surata, verse 89) there is no religious law or a problem, what concerns the world and the life of the men, which has not inside a solution; it is a help to an inexhaustible one, guide, explanation and direction for all, wants that it is in parts or in all: " A Light and a Lucid Book brought you near already of Allah. " (5th Surata, verse 15)
Yes, this fabulous Koran is the light advisor for the humanity. Pulled out it of the darkness and transported it for light, for the truth and for the true path. It was the point of transformation in his long history, taking away it of the merciless life of corruption and taking it to the life of freedom, of religion and of direction, and it set the right and the understanding up, in the world completely, when there are lifting up the humanity of the lowest step the summits of the perfection, of lofty way.
We have the sunna and hadith, where we can to take samples for to help us in our actions.
All the time remembering that : NOBODY IS BETTER THAN NOBODY
So, To pray, to be polite, to do the 5 pillar of the islam are our duties, important of din. But. can not criticizing , to offend, to prejudice others because collor, type, origine, acts, etc.
Inside of the Ummah we are everybody sisters and brothers. Of course have , too, humans with good characters and not good characters. But is not our duty to criticize the others.
The arrogance and pride to affected. She allowed that this attitude, for the sake of Allah, make her feel superior, or even safe. Nobody has a guarantee. We do our best to please Allah, but all must rely on the mercy of Allah. Nor can we know who will saved from the fire. We do not know what Allah will do, so why not ignore someone do what we do is arrogant and needs to be avoided.
Abdullah ibn Mas'ud narrated: "The Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) observed: who holds in his heart the pride, even though the size of a mustard seed, not enter Paradise. A person (amongst his hearers) said: Verily a person loves that his dress is elegant, and his shoes are beautiful. He (the Prophet) remarked: Verily, Allah is Merciful. Pride is disdaining the truth and despise the people. "Sahih Muslim: Book 1, No. 0164.
Some of my fellow Our beloved Prophet were so afraid that they were not doing the maximum for Islam that came to tremble with fear of Allah, while they were spending the night praying and day fasting and devoting their lives to Allah. Who are we to think we have a warranty?
In the previous hadith, Rasul Allah clearly tells us that we have no right to despise each other. Even if the person is a sinner, we do not have that right. Take the example of adulterer who was punished. The man confessed and was stoned to death.
*... The Prophet heard one of his companions saying to another: "Look at this man who tried to hide their lack Allah, do not let the matter drop, so he is like a stoned dog. "The Prophet said nothing to them but walked for a while until the corpse of a donkey with its legs in the air. He asked, "Where are so and so? "They said," Here we are, Apostle Allah. "Then he said:" Get down and eat some of this body of donkey. "They replied: Apostle of God! Who can eat that? "He said: "The shame that you just do your brother is more serious to eat some of it. By Him in Whose hand my soul is, he is now in the rivers of Paradise and plunging into them. Sunann Abu Dawud, Book 38, No. 4414.
What an example! The man had committed a greater sin. He had confessed sin. However, his repentance was sincere. We should not judge others for their mistakes and sins, because it is for Allah only. We can apply the punishments which Allah has commanded us, but it is up to Him only forgive them or not. It is not we who decide. Do not know what's going on people's hearts. We can talk with someone who is not doing what Islam orders, such as wearing the hijab, wear a beard or prevent music, or whatever, but we can not even imagine that we are better than that person. Why not know their circumstances or what is in your heart or even your destination. This belongs to Allah.
And the example of the adulteress. If saw on the street, what would we think of it? However, she had forgiven their sins by because of one little thing that did. Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle said, "A prostitute was forgiven by Allah, because, passing by a panting dog near a well and seeing that the animal was dying of thirst, he took his shoe, and tying it with her headscarf, and drew out some water for give the dog. And Allah forgave her because of it. "Sahih Bukhari: Volume 4, Book 54, No. 538.
Of course we can not be happy with their sins, but we teach it, maybe to punish her, but never insult her or we think we are much better than her. Moreover, we should be friends of those that we commit sins, if we can. The person may simply be ignorant of correct Islamic practices. We try to teach them and maybe gain something ourselves from this effort. It may be that this person has something to us offer in the way of good.
We can to be, constantly, shocked hearing, yet, about stories when one human despise others because of their origins, or because they are poor, or even because they are rich, because they converts, perhaps because accepting Islam, but doesn't wasborn inside islamic family, or in a islamic country. However, many of these same brother and sisters are much stronger in their faith after accepting. NO IMPORTANT CHARACTER ECONOMIC-CULTURAL- SOCIAL- PHYSICS.. IMPORTANT IS THE CHARACTER MORAL .. HEART... FAITH.
We have to stop to be so virtuous in to prejudice. We, as Muslims, we are criticizing each other when should seek to help each other. Allah says: "... You in auxilium virtue and piety. Do you not assist each other in sin and hostility but fear God, Allah is strict in punishment. " (Quran 5:2)
When we are tough on a else when we despise, we may be pushing one that is weaker than because we sinned. Think about it. Would you accept advice from someone who despises or Insults? Of course not. We must respect and love the man who advises us. No matter the size of the error, we must never think we're better and that, therefore, we right to insult or despise anyone. What better example than that of our merciful Prophet. Narrated Anas bin Malik: A Bedouin came and urinated on a corner of the mosque. The people shouted at him but the Prophet stopped them till they are the finished urinating. Then the Prophet ordered them to throw water that place and they did so. "Sahih Bukhari, vol. 1, Book 4, No. 221.
The Muslims shouted with him were abusive, but the Prophet in his great mercy and wisdom, knew that this is not the best way to teach. My old teacher, Ghassan Al Baraqawui, once told me "Teach, do not preach, because people like to explanation, not confrontation. "wise words.
We should meditate on what think and say so that we can help each other and not destroy ourselves. No There is none amongst us who can claim perfection.
There is none amongst us you are sure that will enter Paradise without any kind of trial or punishment. We need not try to usurp the role of Allah, believing in each other.
Pride is dangerous. Look to the caution of Rasul Allah. We must avoid the feeling of pride, even though our Islam. Narrated Abdullah bin Umar: The Apostle of Allah said, 'On the Day of Judgment, Allah will not look at him who drags his robe with pride. "Abu Bakr said," If I did not take care, a part of my verges on the mantle floor. "Allah's Apostle said," But you do not do it pride. "Sahih Bukhari, vol. 5, Book 57, No. 17.
SORROW OR RESENTMENT is a result of the Pride, Vanity and arrogance and it are the instruments of Satan. When Allah told him to prostrate himself before Adam, he refused and this was his undoing. Allah says "And when we say to the angels: Prostrate yourselves before Adam! They prostrated, except that Lucifer and lofty, if denied, and included among the unbelievers. "
If you see this in you, beware of trying to justify it. Take the example of Satan with their explanations, when Allah questioned him about his refusal to prostrate. "She asked him (Allah): What was it that prevented you from prostrating yourself, although we had to pay? He replied: I am better than him: You created me from fire and him from clay. I told him, Go down from here (the Paradise), for it is not allowed to be haughty. Get thee hence, because you are one of abject! " (Quran 7:12-13)
We can not afford to fall this horrible trap of Satan. We can not feel better than others, because the sin of pride is great. Allah says: "When it is said theme that God takes possession of him pride, inducing him to sin. But hell You will be sufficient punishment. An evil cradling! (Quran 2:206)
So, brothers and sisters: Next time you see someone different in appearance or action, think times before you can find better than that person. you see someone doing wrong, either... you can, go to her\him with affection and kindness and advise them. Do not assume the worst. Give him or her apology to the 70 sin and try to help her\him or help her to understand the evil in question. Do not expect a change. Just advice. Let God take care of the changes. The person may get angry or argue with you. Do not fall for this trick of Satan. Only show him the evidence of God's book and Sunans authentic. That is for them to accept or reject the and your job will be done. But do not let him think you are superior to him.
Also, next time you see someone from another culture or origin, not judge them based on your preconceived notions about that group. See the individual. Talk to him / her. Who knows if it will have some advice that might bigger benefit you, from Allah?
Only Allah knows our history, the ways, and all motives in our life.
Do not assume that because you look more like a Muslim, you are the best of them. This pride and arrogance that you feel can destroy it. Fear Allah, brothers and sisters. Fear Allah and give each Muslim is his due. As I said many times before, the worst and most wretched among us, is better that the best of non-Muslims and it is our job to advise us each other to that light in the darkness and make clear the filth of sin.
Allah made us so that we to love one another. Allah made us so that we to help each other. Allah prohibits us from us we hurt each other. Allah made us true brothers and sisters. Therefore, let us one body, one heart. Amen
So i think, and , for now, maybe i am wrong, but i understand and believe:
Forgive and live.
If you do not forgive today ...
Tomorrow, right
Your day will be more dark
His steps are less firm
Your problems will arise more complex.
His hurt will hurt a lot more ...
If you do not forgive now
Will be in your path, later?
Sorry while you can, so that, future
not fall on your head the sufferings and complaints of many.
Forget the evil so that evil does not remember us.
The fire of affliction devastates consciousness that did not get enough force to wash up in the living waters of great compassion.
Who does not forgive the mistakes of similar, condemns himself.
Who does not forgets the offenses, becomes a burden of cruelty.
Do not stop!
FORGIVE ... forgive me
TO GUARD SORROW OR RESENTMENT IS HOW IT WILL TAKE POISON
Do never be let the sun put on any anger or resentment; better even it is not to get angry!
FORGIVE
Assists others without the worry of receiving the support of others.
Everything we do now, what will reap later.
Consider, however, that to rectify the discrepancies in the gear of our mutual relationship, the Lord gives us the blessing of compassion.
Noted the presence of friends to discern candidates with higher natural flaws through which they identify, have mercy upon them and sustains them with the forces at your fingertips.
Embraces the work of good to others with joy.
Learn to put the welfare of others, in the belief that no progress alone.
works constantly and serve.
And please make sure that where the wishful thinking of the good to prevail, there shines the path to improvement of our souls to Allah, strengthening us so that we are in achieving the best.
In any difficult situation, apparently insoluble, use more patience, because patience is the soul of the building on the foundations of faith in Allah (cc), and applying more patience wherever you are in any affliction, lest you appear clearly win.
Do not stop!
Makes the presence of a partner who hurt you and forgive, helping him recover.. IF HE/HER TO ACCEPT,
SOMETIME WAS , ONLY A SITUATION.
BUT BE CAREFULL,
SOMETIME ARE ENEMY TRYING TO DO YOU , TO BE OUT SIDE FROM THE RIGHT WAY. SO,CAN TO FORGIVE, AND GO AWAY, IF IS THIS
BUT , IF NOT: FORGIVE
Reflects and sustains it!
How many pain disorders and how many will lash the soul, before the word it would rise to offend you or
before your arm, armed by the misunderstanding, it granted the coup against you depressing?
Guard helps calm and without ceasing.
Later, it is possible that you can not, for your turn, bear the horrendous storm of wrath and complain, also, the
balm of understanding others.
Return to your home or your struggle and spread again, the blessing of love, all hearts that lie poisoned
the gall of cruelty or the poison of slander.
Do not hesitate, though!
Forgive now while the opportunity for rapprochement favors the good wishes you because you probably tomorrow , the light of the opportunity will have passed and you will not find, around you but the ashes of repentance and bitter tears.
Forgiveness change reality because it is encounter with the truth.
To forgive is to reattach the broken relationship abdicate personal trial
Forgiveness is not easy, but it is the most effective way for human society healthy and happy. Our live and live to survive through that forgiveness is an attitude of unconditional love, understanding, compassion and great wisdom.
Who does not forgive is a loser. Loses two to zero because frustrates the human relationship and carries within it the garbage of hurt and bitterness.
Who forgives reaches zero to zero, ie, restores the communion and expels the poison of resentment. Is physical health, psychological, social and spiritual. The remedy is forgiveness, healing, excellent therapy. This act is to recognize all diferences that the others can to have, because Allah created everbody diferent. So, Forgive are a big act recognizing Allah's creations, and , also, to recognize that you have mistakes, do mistakes, and probable that will to do others, of couse. Then, you will to be able for to have forgiving to you.
Who doesn't forgive, not forget the evil and suffering the disease of "repetition compulsion"; lives always remembering, again, relieving the pain inside. Why not forgive, will always blame someone and getting revenge. This all increases the suffering and physical exhaustion.
Forgiveness is taking the root of bitterness.
To forgive is to understand, quit judging and blaming others. This is possible when we recognize that we are clay. Nobody is infallible. When we accept our clay and the other, we forgive. With apologies could give new meaning to the fact that hurt us, we have new understanding, new look, new feeling about things and people. Forgiveness change reality because it is against the truth.
To forgive is to reattach the broken relationship is to put yourself in the hands of another, give up the trial staff. It is a gesture of generosity in which we are the gift of ourselves.
Without forgiveness we are heavy, sick, depressed, aggressive, ruthless.
To be human forgive is yourself.
Lack of forgiveness is false and barren prayer.
The rancor, the bitterness, resentment prevent the action of grace.
The negative feeling is an energy that turns into poisonous disease, insomnia, aggression, immorality, drunkenness, noise, partying, etc..
Many of life's problems are rooted in unforgiveness.
The bitterness, resentment, bitterness and feelings are destructive energies. So, who does not condone hate the truth, it carries poison in the soul, destroys the well deviates from the charity, lives in bitterness and criticism, it hurts the heart slowly dies, he feels lost. One can only emptiness, loneliness and the noise to drown out the inner unrest.
MAYBE I AM WRONG...
IF A AM WRONG; FORGIVE ME
AND TEACH ME THE RIGHT.
