ohh Allahim, pls, save me.. this pain.. Allahim...
forgive me ... give me help or..
ohh Allahim.. you see the all suffering..you see..
miss so much...

Where's The Dream ... WHERE ARE YOU .... Who keeps here.. yet.. to reah you?
is certaim..You Never Knew .. what she heart does Because of her Green Dreams,

not to know "who is he" .. impOrtance to the others the live ..
you would not know she did, doing, everything is  and willl be Able  to be by side of you .....
or ... in your absence ..
How much pain, to feel,  miss u  ... and life is going away .. 
she needs your care ... she needs you .. close ... Dream ...
Because she does not know and can not live without the reality of having a dream ....
you do not know, but she was in that city 
.. and you must need know.. were there .. and.. each piece of place .. 
 she dreamed .. to see you .. For the promise was made.. with Alla swt hearing and angels as testemony!
The sea .. the stars, the moon ... each sheet .. each pray .. You are ..
Every action, are made to reach DREAM!
And the hope is be with  Dream .. and then the TRUTH, by ALlahCC BE.
She fight because of YOU
She waited to call you .. 
she cried because of, never heard the Dreams, calling she ...
Without dreams, suffering, is killing 
... and all faith is going away ..
You do not know the pain. 
This abandonment .... 
It's worse than having your eyes shielded ..
it is a heart, crying, every second, without rest, to protect AllahCC You ....
She is trying with the very best to reach her life.. that exist because of the dreams
 .. It is you who has the key .. 
It is you who has the stars .. Joy ... she must feel, having to back 
... but .. lets you "evil is established" ... and then You do not call ...
 you  do  not explain the way ..
She ask to Allah cc, Please, come hold me 
..  lets be there 
.. because of is he, the DREAMS 
by you, who from what  part soul is
You give me the peace .. being by side.

For to see the sky, the moon, by side of Your eyes 
.. and Dreams become reality soon
And yet, you do not know:
she is ready to die .. because of you: Dreams

The importance in to pratice acts inside of the Real Knowledge, (leaving the shirk)

What makes the win is reached, briefly
First, the permission of Allah (swt)
So, the FAITH AND SUBMITION TO ALLAH (SWT)

For this permission should be given priority:
With JUSTICE and EQUALITY (repeitando rights of creatures on you)

    > idealize
    > Planning together WITH ALL INVOLVED, for a long duration, on average 7 to 10 years. But with small goals for alcaçar, until you reach the end goal. (battles constitute war. earned each other will not)
    > Division of labor, with clear objectives for each action achieve success
    > Search Resources
    > Continuous dialogue / training (search and exchange of knowledge, true, according to the sunna and other religious knowledge)
    > Action, according to the sunna.
    > Evaluation
    > Re-Planning
    > Faith: Preservation of the Faith is loyalty.


To act with justice and EQUALITY




 "Indeed, Allaah conferred a great favour on the believers when He sent among them a Messenger (Muhammad) from among themselves, reciting unto them His Verses (the Quran), and purifying them (from sins by their following him), and instructing them (in) the Book (the Quran) and Al-Hikmah [the wisdom and the Sunnah of the Prophet (i.e. his legal ways, statements and acts of worship)], while before that they had been in manifest error" [Quran, 3:164]

 

 bismillaharrahmanarrahim

 The truthful, achieve success. Those do not care do not thanks, gifts from Allah (swt) , wil have delay in to get the victory.

 Why a faithful,  gets tired, and victory is labored, even living in a islamic society, and doing all efforts? 

 
For these reasons:
1 - Their actions are based on "knowledge" of infidels. It is the hight factor for Muslims!

2 - The intention are not truth; the acts, and / or the cause damage to other, also, the plans by Allahcc (humans are stubborn when drunk by the desires of the world. The heart are turned to the world wishes, avoiding or neglecting a duty or responsibility by Allah swt Wills)

3 - They are using shirk such as knowledge base: A True what he believes is lying (poor understanding of Islamic knowledge, situation, and/or  no correct aplication of the islamic knowledge, etc.)

4 - They are linked to worldly desires, leaving the mission priority. Allah said CC
(9-120) Should not the people of Madina and Their Bedouin neighbors refuse to follow Allah's Messenger, nor to prefer Their Own Lives to the detriment of his,

5 - Not planned actions, according to  real knowledges, the sunna. (with the heart, budy, soul, then the acts to Allah CC)

 ACTIONS should be made ​​for the benefit of humanity, and you are retornarãopara as BLESSINGS.

So be thankful for everything you get. You do not know the future!

• With the improve of the understandings from the knowledge, the eyes of the heart , mind and soul, will be oppened, and only there, you will understand the importance of "To care every Gift by AllahCC to you  
• The truthful, achieve success: So BE true to Allah (swt) Accept all that Allah (swt) sent to you to be the caregiver, with GIFTS.

  If you do not like, then you are not being grateful to Allah (swt)

The importance in to pratice acts inside of the Real Knowledge, (leaving the shirk)

 
What makes the win is reached, briefly
First, the permission of Allah (swt)

So, the FAITH AND SUBMITION TO ALLAH (SWT)

 

For this permission should be given priority:

With JUSTICE and EQUALITY (repeitando rights of creatures on you)

• > idealize
• > Planning together WITH ALL INVOLVED, for a long duration, on average 7 to 10 years. But with small goals for alcaçar, until you reach the end goal. (battles constitute war. earned each other will not)
• > Division of labor, with clear objectives for each action achieve success
• > Search Resources
• > Continuous dialogue / training (search and exchange of knowledge, true, according to the sunna and other religious knowledge)
• > Action, according to the sunna.
• > Evaluation
• > Re-Planning
• > Faith: Preservation of the Faith is loyalty.

To act with justice and equality:

 

1 - Reviewing values ​​(life). Working for all actions is to Allah (swt), favoring those who are under their care.
2 - Accept what Allahcc Po that Allah (swt) grants, with gratitude and submission (if he does not like, then no thanks, then their values ​​are confused).
3 - Fix the past mistakes so that they do not drown in the future;
(according to sunna)
4 - Plan each act, to act with Justice, Morality and Respect: Caring for Your Health, to expand their knowledge (within the sunna)
care for, watch over, the heart of any creature that Allah (swt), to be placed carefully, supported, protected by them (without prejudice)
5 - Acting organized, expanded, noting that "everything will be noted in his book, for obtensão of favors, and this in another life"

 

OBSERVATION OF THE IMPORTANCE OF THE KNOWLEDGE REAL.

The first word of its first verse was 'Iqra' that is, read. Allaah says, (what means): "Read! In the Name of your Lord Who has created (all that exists). He has created man from a clot (a piece of thick coagulated blood). Read! And your Lord is the Most Generous. Who has taught (the writing) by the pen. He has taught man that which he knew not" [Quran, 96: 1-5]

 there is no goodness in knowledge which is not confirmed by actions or words which are not confirmed by deeds (inside f the islamic knowledge pure), Allaah the Almighty says (what means): "O you who believe! Why do you say that which you do not do? Most hateful it is with Allaah that you say that which you do not do" [Quran, 61: 2-3]

 (9-120) Should not the people of Madina and their Bedouin neighbors refuse to follow Allah's Messenger, nor to prefer their own lives to the detriment of his,

"When a man dies, all his deeds come to an end except for three — an ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge or a righteous child who will pray for him." (Muslim)

 The Quran repeatedly asks us to observe the earth and the heavens. This instills in man a desire to learn natural science as well. All the books of Hadeeth have a chapter on knowledge. In Saheeh Al-Bukhaari there is a chapter entitled "The virtue of one who acquires learning and imparts that to others."

 "Indeed, Allaah conferred a great favour on the believers when He sent among them a Messenger (Muhammad) from among themselves, reciting unto them His Verses (the Quran), and purifying them (from sins by their following him), and instructing them (in) the Book (the Quran) and Al-Hikmah [the wisdom and the Sunnah of the Prophet (i.e. his legal ways, statements and acts of worship)], while before that they had been in manifest error" [Quran, 3:164]

"Indeed, Allaah conferred a great favour on the believers when He sent among them a Messenger (Muhammad) from among themselves, reciting unto them His Verses (the Quran), and purifying them (from sins by their following him), and instructing them (in) the Book (the Quran) and Al-Hikmah [the wisdom and the Sunnah of the Prophet (i.e. his legal ways, statements and acts of worship)], while before that they had been in manifest error" [Quran, 3:164]

How great importance is attached to learning in Islam, can be understood from an event in the life of the Prophet .

 

"Whoever follows a path in the pursuit of knowledge real, islamic and do the acts inside these, Allaah will make a path to Paradise easy for him." (Al-Bukhaari)

 

 

 

 

 

Allahcc, I seek Your sincerity to  Who believe, Those Who are dedicated to friendship, determination in each welfare, safety from every disease, from every misundertandings .. , Pleae, Allahim Make the easy profitability .. right now, and the sky ... security. against hell inside out side, here ina in the next live, amin (HZ Muhammad SAW).

Help the hearts, hear You, and not of not falling into the traps of seduction mundane, that makes fooled .. away from you! but rather require their favor ..
Allahim, shows the strength of this warrior, your soldier, your slave .. Life on this ..
Allahim shows his importance in this life .. for all of us who love sincerely and him need to see the smile, the joy, the teaching about YOU, Allahim
 
Allahim, give the Peace for the heart, this fighter, leader of family.
Oh AlahCC rebukes tie and sent the enemy of, Which the heart attack and the "mind" of men, They weaken for the rest .. Placing inside of the minds.
Ya Allahcc, helps you remember "you" contuamente, So They can see that "all fatigue and malaise," are manifestations .. And not belong to man ..
WHETHER THE FORCE Allahcc ya, STRONGER FAITH .. and see that the victory easy , are in front and inside ..just need to rest a litle the eyes of the heart, for see YOU  and too many gifts pures , You Allahim, sent and are comming to him.Allahim, BE there., pls amin amin amin

 Have no one more human, more important than the GREAT man.
When are falling, he sustains in Allah (swt)
In the days of tears, pain, sorrow, he bows, to Allahcc
And with the heart, open Allahcc one inhabits, this Great Man
leaves the foolish pride, leave and call, who, he knows, that nothing has
has everything ... inside it, by Allahcc wills, because she is his ... does and will do anything to take his hand, eye contact,,
and raises it .. therefore, her life is connected to it ... to smile, health, life
him! And its two are AllahCC to take care of him more than her.
E. .. he knows that she will fight with the world, to protect him .. with Life itself .. It is your soldier ... and he is the master of it!
And, when it is well ... with her smile, she will go where his commander to send ... so, as always, Leal ...

Allahim please sustains him, my family .. Please give your angels around him, inside and outside .. Lord ... His Permission and immediate help to can, esa humble slave ... be a help for the helper .. Accepts two grants permissãopara be your one should be. Allahcc cuts forces of the enemy that lurks, and diverts those who were routed .. Lord keep us on the straight path, the path of the recipients, Anointed, Victorious, in this life and the next.
Al Wali Al Qaawiyy please Depart enemies, invesoso and envy ... Pour Yours Blessings, Allahim .. Forwards, BE, please .. HIM!
Lord, Please BE, inside health Peace, Strength .. and out protection. Take care of the heart and of the mind .. this, that is your BEST slave, amin amin amin Allahim

AILE BENIM ... ÇOK SEVGILIMMM - stres

Kahin to hogi wo - Jaane Tu Ya Jaane Na "Full Song"

öyle bir geçer zaman ki
how the time passes
dediğim aynı ile vaki
the thing im saying is the same happening
öyle bir geçer zaman ki
how the time passes
dediğim aynı ile vaki
the thing im saying is the same happening

birden dursun istersin
suddenly u want it to stop
seneler olunca mazi
when the years become bygone
öyle bir geçer zaman ki
how the time passes
dediğim aynı ile vaki
the thing im saying is the same happening
öyle bir geçer zaman ki
how the time passes

kara yazı yazıldı sanma
dont think the black destiny is written
insanın da kaderi böyle
the fate of Human is like that
öyle bir geçer zaman ki
how the time passes
dediğim aynı ile vaki
the thing im saying is the same happening
öyle bir geçer zaman ki
how the time passes

bir cevap buldun mu sorulara
did u find an answer for the questions?
yiğitlik de var yine serde
bravery is inside too
nasıl gaddar seneler
how cruel the years are
geçiyor durduğu yerde
passes at the same place..

günlere bakarsın katı katı
u look at the days unshadedly
üzerine çekersin perde
u close the curtains
yoldan geçenler var da
there are the ones who pass through the street
her akşam gelenler nerde
(but) where are the ones who come every evening?
o nedir seni kızdıran
whats that which gets on ur nerves
memnun edeceği yerde
instead of making you grateful
bak bir garip diyor ki
look a poor says
nerede o yarim nerde
where is my darling?where?

anılara kapılıp kanma
dont overcome by the memories
dünyanın da düzeni böyle
the system of the world is like that

the story of the few people know of the Turkish flag..I was once a period when homework öğrenmişdim. Although the us for many years, psychologists, however, lies in the cocuklukda digression
 the Ottoman Government after a flag of the Republic and their short kuruldukdan since used little NK Maen this game
 There is a story of a shadow like this fotoğrafdaki maybe but, for centuries a symbol of Muslim Turks here and there without the Crescent already have an icon that is already an icon, but also religious, already a nation that accepts the Turks had been defeated through first. While a small number lived there each meaning. but it is important that the Crescent;)
 Let us all kurtuluş was born in anlatılırdı, but this bloodbath from the Kosovo war he is web acıklamalarında 1 bed and breakfasts are written to date. following this there is a countdown to a conjecture, but küclü
  kurtulul has been with the Moon and star in the fall of the bloodbath was much sharper acıklamadır these ... because such a acıklama in the war of independence that is so sacmadır because I already banned kullnılırdı.!! but for some reason they learned at school or teachers have always told this story with such senior.
 From the earlier Anatolian Turkish Ottoman Empire flag used in color and symbols do not have enough information about it. The first Anatolian Seljuk ruler of the Turkish flag by Osman Bey as Antalya Masoud as ak-color sent to starboard. After the 15th century al Sultan Selim I at the battle of Chaldiran in the flag, the green flag was introduced. It is the closest to the shape of the Turkish flag, III. During the reign of Selim I. This was an eight-pointed star with a Crescent-x. In case of use of the pentacle star Abdul Mejid II period in 1842. Abolition abolition on May 29, 1936 in a precise manner. Turkish flag Ordinance July 28, 1937 is also with Turkish 27175 Decree on the use of the flag. According to A legend, the history of the flag Formation, 1. In the aftermath of the Kosovo war in the war as a result of the Turkish soldiers who died as a Lake of blood, Moon and stars are considered to occur with this reflection on the Lake. Among all the assumptions made, 1. One of the biggest ihtimallerden have caused the Kosovo war, because war is one of the rare moments of Jupiter and the Moon in the sky on one side-by-side. 1. date of the battle of Kosovo (July 28, 1389), and the coordinates (Lat: 43.41, Long: 25.65) examined the location of planets in the sky Moon and stars could be the fact that the Moon and Jupiter. If you have reason to believe this image, also a possible on Lake of blood; the current state of the Turkish flag with us. To do this, at the time, the reduction in the middle of the night sky of the koordinatta, if you want to track the image on to sit on the blood bear pit with a great similarity between the Turkish Flag. Jupiter's corners that can appear around the part of Jupiter's 4 months of the flare (visible to the naked eye, but a simple telescope might seem the best chance a glimmer appears close to Jupiter); a big chance, a star of Jupiter benzetilmesini. But, the Sun's reflection on the planet by any people in the world can be viewed in a bright star assumes. Planet Uranus, its proximity to Jupiter during this period (although it is very difficult to appear to the naked eye, though, as it might seem a little gleam); Jupiter gives rise to be around 5 corner it seemed.

Bismillah: Whatever happens, happens for the best...

[AMAZING STORY] Imam Ahmed rah, once was travelling and needed to stay somewhere overnight. When he went to the masjid, the guard (not recognizing Imam Ahmed) denied him entrance. Imam Ahmed tried numerous times, but the guard did not accept his requests. Frustrated, Imam Ahmed resolved to spend the night in the masjid yard. The guard became furious and dragged him away, despite the old age and frailty of Imam Ahmed.

A baker, whose shop was nearby, watched this scene and took pity on Imam Ahmed. He invited the Imam to stay with him for the night. While there, Imam Ahmed noticed that the baker continually made istighfaar (asking for Allah’s forgiveness) while working, and in the morning, the Imam eagerly asked his host about the latter’s continual seeking of forgiveness.

The baker said it had become like second nature, and Imam Ahmed then asked whether the man had experienced any reward from this practice.

The baker answered,“By Allah! No dua to Allah I made except , tks, bcs of   answered  dua”

“And what is that duaa?” asked Imam Ahmed. “To be able to see the famed Imam Ahmed ibn Hanbal!”

Imam Ahmed interjected, “I am Ahmed ibn Hanbal!”

He then went on to add:
“By Allah! I was dragged to your place so that you can have your duaa/wish come true.”

[Take 60 seconds…] Ask Allah swt for forgiveness daily for the next 21 days to make it a habit. #Super simple! #Super valuable!

p.s. What is stopping you from working to become of those who are beloved to Allah (swt)? What lessons did you learn from the story?

 Allahcc, have not word for to thanks. Have not words for to ask protection to him, thn , please, BE inside outside of hem, Allahim. Care this best slave to You Allahim. and help me be help.
pls, accept our duas and our more sincere THANKS Allah cc amin amin amin

 Allahim Al Wali, i thanks You for everything, Allahcc.. i having not claming, but asking Your Favors, for to Protect the commandant , from You .., to us (those need him). Allahim please, Protection to his heart, mind, thoughts from the to the whispers, and guidelines sheythan (the seducer)

Guide his gaze through sense, the heart of our religion, so that he can guide us, and then, guide us to You. Help me, Allahcc,  be his helper. Allah cc, Al Aziz Al karim  help, pride, , passions of the world, do not corrupt souls ... all who need it, Allah'in. And all we can be, real, to achieve  YOU .. fully blessings in this life and the next. Allah cc, please do grow to Godliness, Faith Protection for the health of body and soul, profities, properties halal. Clean disagreements, cutting the enemy forces ... Showing please the real deal .. so we do not fall down .. and this family, companions, partners ins this jorney, can stay in HONOR to you ... always, amin amin amin

   Allahim covers this family, from You done with the union and understanding, to YOU.
Allahim, You are the Forgiver, please forgive my mistakes, because they are from ignorance about "to live". Please, Al Jabbar Al Wali, brings understanding to the hearts, and perdon for our faults, help us to forgive and be forgiven , be in understand and be understood, To love and be loved with real love (piety). Being around and have, for from them the opportunity to stand beside us in difficult moments and moments .....and we THANKSGIVING PRAISE You. Help us, Lord, to understand that this earthly life is a passage, which will not take anything, and be united, to the benefit of this passage among us, with our presence, with our help, with our love and care. Allahim, please clean disagreements, planted by the enemy, and help us to be more humble, Esplicar and get explanations, orientations of those who know more, dorma we are, to share what we have: knowledge, love, work food, faith, religion and all that yOU ALLAHcc, THE PROVIDER, has given us so that we can fulfill our mission).

Help us understand more the sufferings, needings what others are facing, before we get prejudge about them. Allahim we need Your help urgent.. And we thanks in advance Your favors, requesting others, because of we are nothing without Yous favors on us. So, help each heart Be more hellpers to those are asking, claming their favors, understanding that You made every soul joined, because of each one need an other, because of Your Wills to our live.

Allahcc help us not to fall into the trap of PRE Trials, the prejudge, of Discord. Help us to be better each day, and maintain continuous dialogue. And understand more ills, the needs of others,And understand more ills, the needs of others when they seek . Allahim, please help us keep Patience, Loyalty. Help keep our hearts united, reflecting the acts. Allahim covers this family, from You done with the union, so we can win together, united in YOUR NAMES. amin

Gavsi Sani Hazretlerinin (K.S.) Koruması Anlatıyor.

ISTE TÜM SOFILERIN ARADIGI O SOHBETLERDEN BIRI

abdülbaki hz.

This world is not a permanent place, it is a passage, a road on which you are passing. There are two kinds of people here: One is the kind of those who have sold their souls for eternal damnation, the other is of those who have purchased their souls and freed them from damnation.

~hzALI (ra.)

Sayings by the Prophet

 

Bismillahirrahmannirraheem

Al-Tirmidhi HadithHadith 
Narrated byAbuHurayrah
“Do treat  women well and be kind to them, for they are your partners and committed helpers.”
“I am leaving you with the Book of God and Sunnah (=example) of his prophet. If you follow them, you will never go astray.”
” Muslim is a brother to every Muslim and that the Muslims constitute one brotherhood.”   he should not persecute him or leave him alone in his troubles. Whosoever helps his brother Allah will certainly help him. (all three from the farewell speech on his last Hajj, which makes them a final verdict.)
 “Shall I not inform you of a better act than fasting, alms and prayers? Making peace between one another: Enmity and malice tear up heavenly rewards by the roots.”

“God is gentle, and He loves the adoption of a gentle attitude in all matters.” (related by Al-Bukhari and Muslim)
“There are three signs of a hypocrite: when he speaks he speaks lies, when he makes a promise he breaks it, and when he is trusted he betrays his trust.”

 Al-Tirmidhi HadithHadith 5042        Narrated byAbuSirmah

The Prophet said, "He who causes harm will be harmed by Allah and he who acts in a hostile manner will be treated in a hostile manner by Allah."

Ibn Majah and Tirmidhi transmitted it, Tirmidhi saying this is a gharib tradition.

The true muslim is he who does not hurt other Muslims, with their acts,  either with his hands or his tongue. They must care for the understanding be in each single relation.

The intension is worthless if the act causes harm to another.
Treating people who sent Allahcc You take care of them, without any distinction
Narrated by Abu Dhar: "I abused a man calling his mother with bad names. Prophet said to me:" O Abu Dhar! You abuse him by calling his mother with bad names? You still have some characteristics of ignorance. Your slaves are your brothers and God put them under your command. So whoever has a brother under his command should feed him of what he eats and dress him of what he wears. Do not ask them (slaves) to do things beyond their capacity (power) and if you do, then help them. "(More in" bondage "theme)

 Our beloved Prophet (saw) said: Muslim is a brother to every Muslim and that the Muslims constitute one( near or far),  he should not persecute him or leave him alone in his troubles. Whosoever helps his brother Allah (swt)  will certainly help him.
To care , to help, to do your duties about  the other is helpping with what they need, and ask you. Not with what you guess. 
Because as a baby , when cry , have motive... the adult, when are in troubles, ask you the help, it is just for have you , direct helpping, clear, after a good dialogue for find the way.
Do not say things, not clear, becaus of , when u do so: be sure, is sheythan using your mind for make, by waswasa, doing  confusion.
no hide yourself from those are with you because of Allah CC. This destroy lives..and many more, of those are far from where need be.  Take understand and care with the heart turned to Allahcc, till the person be by side, really to the victory to Allahcc be done, inshallah!

 Assalamu alaykum wrwb
As our Prophet Hz Mohammed (pbuh) that: never left those was in needs, needing of Him...
 .. Always took those was aking his presence, and thos was in harms, forbid, necessity,  necessities , lonly : to be by his side. 
Even those who were far ... our prophet made plan , together, for the person go be near of Him..
  without any pre-concept, near or far, every muslims had His care, attention,.
  No matter where and how He (our prophet pbuh) was. Also, do not let "disagreements or anger" take care of their attitudes ...
We must all of us do the same: supportive, with affection, respect and compassion for those in need of help ..
pursue happiness, peace, to achieve Allahcc but leaving other responsibilities, which will cause damage to other lives: is be used by tools sheythan.
When a person requires your help, is because, AllahCC give you, this mission, and the bea enoght for the help.
So, the human can not radichal to take a decision.
And for more hard That can be their own needs, there are others there who are in need of YOU. And with your help, they can certainly help you, because ALlahCC is KNOWER of all things. and Ampara àquels which remains on track with Justicça, Faith
 
blessed friday

Allahim, Al Wali, please, protect this family, made by Your WIlls, Making able each one of us be help to the othes, to mantain us in the correct path, to You. Make easy Allahim. Care his health, faith, mind, heart, please, and give victory in matters, Help the understando about what the other are facing come to be, in real dialogue, please, as Human Good Muslims we nee be to You. Allahim amin

 

forgive when person geting stress disturb u, bcs of are missing you ...

 

sometime or to the long of the live.. we are in situation, where the key are not in our hand..
Allahim, forgive us..and help us :´´´´ pls

Hz Ali (ra) , because of the said: betrayal, and many disagreements, When some blessings come to you, not the drive through thanklessness Them away.when fear: Do not retreat! When the subject is other life: That life is worth the life of all mankind!
Everything , every plan, every peoples  whats look is difficult, take time , more than you accept,  is Blessing by Allah(swt), for to prove your Patience and Submission. 
Mismatches occur, because of the lack of a sincere dialogue, clear , objective advisor .... without fear or fears, but ... with Compassion, Faith, TENDERNESS .... AIMING bolster NEEDS OF ALL PARTIES. NO MORAL OR MATERIAL DAMAGE ....
Stand with your heart, mind, eyes, ears open, and also the soul, when "a human ask some word of advice"
If does so, is because values ​​You ... as gift. Needing knowledge from You. And Knowledge is blessing from Allahcc , for to use in goodness!
But to keep up READY, and fulfill the Will by Allahcc ..
Never wills, internal, caused by internal feelings, negative: a (made by sheythan)
So do not be afraid to go back and correct support, who cries for "your help, your presence"... Get soon, and done: Allahcc will always give Favors, Blessings to Those Who are Godly, Humble, truthful, loyal ...elhamdulillah. Also all godness we , this is to our ownner soul, when in front of The Al Wali Allahcc.

Alla1in Al Jabbar, i claim Your Refuge to he (family from You) to all us, souls family , be joined giving out very best for to support each to other for reach Your Pardon and Blessings amin amin amin

Those who abstain from dialogue with their fellow battle already lost the war.


thinking about: if some batle are loss, everybody what have relation with the soldiers what loss, will be in suffering, too. Then , even those are not in the "batle camp", ans stayed in house, are directly responsable for the victory be done. But the lider MUST BE Respected. 


Easy to understand: just remember the history of our beloved prophet Mohammad (saw), that elhamdulillah left the best sample to us about everybody be joined, and Respecting our Allah CC.
Other sample is the history of ourProphet Moses who remained in the desert for 40 years, because of "non compliance , Non faith and selfishness of the Jewish people '

So it is with families, businesses, groups and other social  matters . Talk and talk, criticize, have pre-conceived ideas, labeling people, draw conclusions, without even giving each other the opportunity to "explain" ...... all this does not solve problems, not the results, does not prepare an effective design.

The dialog is to listen, understand, be heard, understood, replay doubts, ask, orientate, review pllan together, even exhaustively, even if  needs more time. But BEFORE everything, RESPECT   Allah CC law, as a rule, first of all. Respect for each other, and respect the time, the ability of the other (less or more), their knowledge and needs. make and re-make plan, with PATIENCE. Study strategies . Knowing that , even so, can be that, inside of the batle, will need re-plan, because of Only Allah CC know everything, we can guess, from the experience from the live, o and some knowledge, only.
remembering , always, that, for all victorie sent by Allah CC, the win is of each one what was involved
for each defeat, all involved are equally responsibles, also the benefities profities mus be equal. no one more than others . 
Equality is one of the Principles in the islam for have respect to Allah CC. 
 Also, THIS IS SUNNA.
 Our belove  Prophet MOhammad (saw)  said, "The best  among you (Muslims) are those who learn the Qur'an and teach it."“And serve thy Lord (hellping each to others, our duties) until there come unto thee the hour that is Certain.” (Hijr, 15/99)