BismillahhirRahmannirRahim
Prophet (SAW) had given the title of “the wise man of the Ummah” to Abu Darda (RA). He commanded much respect for his intelligence, foresight, understanding, wisdom and upright conduct. He relates that once Prophet (SAW) asked his companions:
“Shouldn’t I tell you a virtue which excels Salat, [prayer] Sadaqah [charity] and Saum [fast]?”
The companions knew well the reward for the Salat and that of Sadaqah, for which reward is multiplied a hundred times. The also knew the virtue of the Saum for which Allah (SWT) says that “Fast is for me and I Myself will give its reward”, and according to another narration, “Allah (SWT) will Himself be its reward.” The companions were all curious to know the excellence of the act, which surpasses the Salat, Sadaqah and Fasting, so they fondly submitted.
“Please advise us Yaa Rasul Allah.” Prophet (SAW) said: “It is through bringing mutual reconciliation between two estranged Muslims.” Prophet (SAW) meant that if differences have ruptured the relations between two brothers, then bringing them closer and creating harmony and peace between them is a virtuous act, which excels the supererogatory (Nawaafil) prayers and the fasts. In yet another tradition, Prophet (SAW) said: “Mutual discords and differences are shavers.” Explaining it further, he (SAW) added: “I don’t mean that it shaves your hair, but it shaves of your faith, because the environment of hatred gives birth to other sins like anger, backbiting, and accusations. These sins extinguish the light of Faith and darken the heart. Prophet (SAW) has advised us to be safe and away from differences, quarrels and disputes.
This is an important advice of our beloved Prophet (SAW) with regards to our social life. We should be very careful and should not let the peace and harmony of our individual and collective life be tarnished by discord. If we see that there exists an estrangement between two individuals, two families, or two groups, then we should sincerely work for reconciliation between them.
The rights that one Muslim has over another are many, some of which are individual obligations that are required of each person, and if he fails to do them he is sinning.
...A Muslim is the brother of a Muslim. He neither oppresses him nor humiliates him nor looks down upon him. The piety is here, (and while saying so) he pointed towards his chest thrice. It is a serious evil for a Muslim that he should look down upon his brother Muslim. All things of a Muslim are inviolable for his brother in faith; his blood, his wealth and his honor. Sahih Muslim Book 31, Number 6219.
Mean: We have special responsibilities towards our brothers and sisters in Islam that we do not have towards the non-Muslim, and the rights of Allah come first, and the rights of Allah include the treatment we give to our brothers and sisters in Islam. We are to consider the Muslim, first and foremost, regardless of our relationships. The Muslim is sacred for us in his faith, his blood and his honor. The act of looking down upon a Muslim brother or sister is a serious sin in Islam. Think about this. How many times do we look down to the Muslim for his or her position in life.
> Except those who believe and do good, and enjoin on each other truth, and enjoin on each other patience 103:3
How many times those who are ignorant, they say are muslim, but refuses to consider other sister or brorther because of things of the world as beautifull or others matters no important. This is a serious offense, to look down upon a Muslim because his or her social status or budy or , even, do not care about her/his faith , beautifull heart ...this acts does not suit us. We must also not assume the worst about people, we do not now their efforts ans Allah swt Plans to our future live... Many Muslims from overseas having been warned that the Muslims non arab are not good. They are dangerous. They are not "real" Muslims. Shame on us for accepting such a thing before we have even a chance to meet one of them! Based on such presumptions, many of us would prefer to assist a non-Muslim in need, while ignoring our brothers and sisters. The ties of Islam must be stronger than all other ties. The most vivid example of this is that of the prophet Noah and his son.
> Advise from last sermon of our beloved prophet Mohammad (saw)
"O People, lend me an attentive ear, for I know not whether after this year, I shall ever be amongst you again. Therefore listen to what I am saying to you very carefully and TAKE THESE WORDS TO THOSE WHO COULD NOT BE PRESENT HERE TODAY.
O People, just as you regard this month, this day, this city as Sacred, so regard the life and property of every Muslim as a sacred trust. Return the goods entrusted to you to their rightful owners.
> Hurt no one so that no one may hurt you. Remember that you will indeed meet your LORD, and that HE will indeed reckon your deeds. ALLAH has forbidden you to take usury (interest), therefore all interest obligation shall henceforth be waived. Your capital, however, is yours to keep. You will neither inflict nor suffer any inequity. Allah has Judged that there shall be no interest and that all the interest due to Abbas ibn 'Abd'al Muttalib (Prophet's uncle) shall henceforth be waived...
Beware of Satan, for the safety of your religion. He has lost all hope that he will ever be able to lead you astray in big things, so beware of following him in small things.
O People, listen to me in earnest, worship ALLAH, say your five daily prayers (Salah), fast during the month of Ramadan, and give your wealth in Zakat. Perform Hajj if you can afford to.
All mankind is from Adam and Eve, an Arab has no superiority over a non-Arab nor a non-Arab has any superiority over an Arab; also a white has no superiority over black nor a black has any superiority over white except by piety and good action. Learn that every Muslim is a brother to every Muslim and that the Muslims constitute one brotherhood. Nothing shall be legitimate to a Muslim which belongs to a fellow Muslim unless it was given freely and willingly. Do not, therefore, do injustice to yourselves.
Remember, one day you will appear before ALLAH and answer your deeds. So beware, do not stray from the path of righteousness after I am gone.
O People, NO PROPHET OR APOSTLE WILL COME AFTER ME AND NO NEW FAITH WILL BE BORN. Reason well, therefore, O People, and understand words which I convey to you. I leave behind me two things, the QURAN and my example, the SUNNAH and if you follow these you will never go astray.
All those who listen to me shall pass on my words to others and those to others again; and may the last ones understand my words better than those who listen to me directly. Be my witness, O ALLAH, that I have conveyed your message to your people".
Brothers and sisters, are one comunity and when Allah swt put together in this live, is for be together caring each other to reach Allah swt Mercifull , so, to be careful in what you say and feel for your other sister /brother Muslims. Do no t separate, but help those are in needing, facing tests, in some hard moment . We are not perfect, but we all share a common bond, love for Allah and His messenger. Even the worst of Muslims will fight to the death to defend his Lord, his Messenger and His deen.
For Piety, make the truth open, the approach of brothers and sisters to be a fact ... so that together they can learn and pass the tests of life.
Allahswt, everything knows and sees everything. And, in the end, you will be alone in front of ELE (swt) where your tasks will be charged.
May Allah give us all increased faith, knowledge and love for each other. Ameen.