bismillaharrahmanarrahim
* About 595 Muhammad (saw) knew Khadija, a 40-year-old widow of age. The young person Muhammad (saw) (in the height with 25 years of age) impressed Khadija for his honesty in the business in such a way that she proposed the marriage, and, she, handed over his goods, for that, the young, Muhammad (saw), to administer, together. This marriage represented a social change for Muhammad (saw), since according to the Arab customs of the time the juveniles were not inheriting, reason for which Muhammad (saw) had received anything of the inheritance of the father and of the grandfather. Muhammad (saw) remained with Khadija (ra) even to the death of this in 619. Khadija had six children of Muhammad (saw), four women (Zainab, Ruqayyah, Ummu Kulthum and Fátima and two men (Al-Qasim and Abdullah, which died during the childhood).
* Rûm Sûresi [30.21] Kaynaşmanız için size kendi (cinsi)nizden eşleryaratıp aranızda sevgi ve merhamet peydâ etmesi deO'nun (varlığının) delillerindendir. Doğrusu bunda, iyi düşünen bir kavim için ibretler vardır.
* Bakara Sûresi [2.187]… Onlar sizin için birer elbise, siz de onlariçin birer elbisesiniz…
* (text, by : The Woman and his Contributions for the Islam and for the Ummah, family and comunity)
“ In the day of Uhud, some persons were dispersed of the Prophet, Abu Talha remained with him, defending it like a shield. Abu Talha was the best archer, and in that day he broke three arches. To all who were passing with arrows, the Prophet was saying: ' send - in the Abul Talha! ’. When he was lifting his head to see what was happening, Abu Talha (frog) was saying: ' The Rasulullah, my father and my mother should be sacrificed by you! Do not lift the head, or an arrow will be able to reach . That they injure my chest, and not his! ’ I saw Aisha bint Abu Bakr and Umm Sulaym, loading water in the back and giving a drink to the combatants, every time the water was finishing, they were going more and were giving a drink to the combatants. In that day, the sword of Abu Talha (frog) fell of his hand two or three times because of the tiredness. ” (Fath al Baari)
Fátima az-Zahra (ra) also was present in Uhud, she took care of the injuries of his father: she burnt a piece of mat of straw and put the ashes in his wound, when the sangramento is staunching.
One of the women who more pointed out how combatant is Naseebah bint Ka'b al-Maaziniyah, Umm Umara (RÃ). In the beginning of the battle of Uhud, she, like other women, was attending the injured ones and was bringing water, but when the archers disobeyed the command of the Prophet and the battle reverted to the detriment of the Muslims, Naseebah grasped his sword and gathered to a me group that had remained with the Prophet, acting like human shield to protect it of the arrows of the mushrikeen.
Khadija (ra) and Muhhamad (saw)
“Not, for Allah cc, interest that Allah never granted nothing to me better of what she. She was the wife who believed me when nobody believed. It confirmed my honesty when all accused to me with liar. It supported me when all had deloused me. Through it, Allah granted the children to me who none another woman gave to me… “ The Islam, today, is a great force in the world. But, had a time where, when it still was crawling , needed protection against the winds of the idolatry and politeism. The Muslen cannot forget an important figure in the construction them foundations it Islam: Khadija bint Khuwaili.
Khadija was eyewitness of the birth of the Islam. was in her house that the Islam was being sculptured and molded. was from its house that the Islam “start flight ". Its house was the home of the Alcoran, the Book of Allah and religious code and politician of the Islam. During 10 years the messages had been being brought for the angel Gabriel and Khadija was who more collected these first revelations comings of God. It was the first wife of the last one of the prophets of Allah cc. It was the first believer. She was it first it human being to declare that the Creative one was One and that Mohammad was his prophet. She was the constant friend of Mohammad. Until she death, Mohammad all dedicated exclusively to the Khadija his love, affection and friendship. She was the first person to together offer preces the God with its husband.
'Afif Al-Kanadi told: “I arrived the Macca during the days of ignorance and wanted to sale some clothes and perfumes on behalf of my family. I was until Al-Abbas b. 'Abdul-Mutalib. “He counts: “While i was in your house, I looked at for the Caaba. The sun left when a man arrived, until approaching to the Caaba. Then he raised his head for the sky and looked at for the Caaba. Then, a young arrived and was to right. Did not take much time and a woman arrived and was behind of them. Then the man, if bent, and the young and the woman, if they had bent. Then the man raised hishead and the young and the woman had made the same. Then the man if inclined in praise, and the young and the woman makes same“
Hecontinued: “Then, I said: 'The Abbas! In the truth, I see a great man. ' And Abbas said: “know who is that man” I answered: “Not, I do not know.” It said: 'he is Mohammad b. 'Abdullah b. 'Abdul-Mutalib, my nephew. Know who is that woman? 'I said: “I do not know.” He said: 'That one is Khadija bint Khuwaylid, the wife of my nephew. This my nephew whom you see told to us that his Sir is the Sir of the skies and of the land and that "He" Should ordered this religion what he is following. I swear for Allah what I do not know anybody any more on the face of the land that is following this religion besides that three. ' And Afif said: ' It would like being the fourth.
When Mohammad proclaimed his mission as the messenger of Allah cc and said the Arabs not to adore idols and she convoked them to be joined around the flag of the Tauheed, a wave of misfortunes if she abated on it. Politeísts had wanted to drink his blood. They had invented new and ingenious forms to torment he and had made innumerable attempts to suffocate his voice forever. In those times of sadness and tension, Khadija never lacked to he. was only because of she and of Abu Talib who politeístas had not obtained to destroy the work of sermon and spreading of the Islam. In such a way, it is of it the most important contribution for the survival of the Islam.
Khadija created the basic standards that translate the domestic peace, harmony, happiness and satisfaction and applied them in its proper life. It demonstrated that the key for the familiar happiness is the proximity between its members. It showed to the rights and duties of husbands and wives. The model created by it became a “project” of familiar life for the Islam; where, the man and the woman, they are a set, joined, when and take care one of other; helping one to other.
Hz Mohammad (SAW) ve Hz Khadija (ra) had been together per 25 years and during these years they had formulated the “laws” that become a successful marriage and the life happiest in the home. Since then, exactly that in secular terms, the remaining portion of the world never was capable to find “to live together” rules better. Khadija transformed into reality the abstractions of the idealism. Her life with Mohammad is a concrete test of this fact. What it gave to the world was not only one set of principles or theoretical ideas, but all an experience, rich at moments of pure enchantment with the Islam and a penetrating love to and from Allah cc to the wonderful Messenger.
Was hard their live, but, love from Allah CC, are so: Allah CC make two souls for be joined, in this live, for help each to other for to reach the plan from Allah CC to our live. Everything for make the separation can happen, using others human (Devil use), but, the soul know, and cannot to leave. Others can come , to take, dothe separation, can have , yet , happy moments, days, years, but the troble ill come, inside, outside... so,, never will be same when the souls need be joined, inside a true family from our Allah CC. Because of, are wishes from dunya, and not the wills from Allah Cc oue ownner.
Many men, women, also, make separated the couple from Allah CC.... for pleasure to do badness or reach others intents, but never wann reach the real sense about the live. A real love from Allah CC , are not a game, are not for this live, but for be so, as my family, from Allah CC to my live elhamdulillah, and many thanks to Allah CC because him, to my live, that make me all the time stay in the faith and do not to faill in the Devil hand. Bcs of if not so, then, Allah CC knows, what i face, far from my beloved family....
so , those know what is sunna, will be careffuly, and before to be between a couple, will remember of this " this live are not a game, and not for to do game with others creatures". Everythig, Allah CC knows. Nobody know the future , here. But everybody know that in the next live, what will save us, are the actions what we did here.
