behavior and tests ,Dua

CHARITY = BEHAVIOR

A guest arrives Suddenly the home of a Bedouin. There was only a little milk, which was  offered. But the guest was still hungry. The Bedouin came within   home and told his wife: "Kill the bitch!" "But it's all we have,  we'll starve! "she yells." Better starve than let the       hungry guest. "They killed the goat and served. At the time of       farewells, the guest said to his servant: "Give him whatever guards!"     "But it's a fortune, master, and he did not kill but a poor goat!"       exclaimed the servant. "Exactly, but he gave us everything he had and we  gave little. Your generosity has far exceeded ours. "

Abûl'-Hasan  Khraqânî,


The good behavior, because everyone is equal before Islam. There is no superiority of one over another based on color, race or tribe. Allah created us to love one and we collaborate with each other. And to ensure good relations between people, Allah forbids us to disturb others through speech or action.

The Quran has defined certain social rules which, if practiced, only feed the love and friendship between us. Here:
“O Believers! That no people make fun of each other, therefore, can be mocked that are better than jesters and that no woman mocks the other, it is possible that this is better than that.

Don't be mutually slurred, not drive each other names with offensive nicknames. Bad is the name of depravity after faith. ⁽¹⁾ And those who do not repent, they are sinners.

O Believers! Shun mistrust too, because there are suspicions that it is a sin and not spies, and not slander (against one another). 

Some of you like to eat the flesh of his/her dead brother/sister? You hated it (Abhor, so that) and fear Allah. Indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.

O People (Humanity) actually create you from a male and a female and divide you into nations and tribes so that you knew each other. (Not that to despise each other). Indeed the noblest among you before Allah is the most pious . Indeed, Allah knows and is aware of all things " (Chapter 49, Verses. 11-13)

⁽¹⁾ Is it a sin to call someone nasty names to call or who embraced Islam by the names they had before becoming (names that reveal disbelief).


These verses contain some social rules such as:

1. Do not despise one another, nor put him down and not make fun of him, because he (being discarded) can be better and dearer before Allah.
2. It is forbidden to speak of the faults of others or call them by their names or nicknames that they do not like.
3. It is forbidden to distrust of others with evil, neither accuse him without proof or certainty as we can be punished for it.
4. It is forbidden to seek or intimate secrets of the Muslims, to shame them.
5. It is forbidden to slander (do "Ghibah"), that is, to speak ill or problems, or something not good of your Muslim sister or  Muslim brother in his absence or say things that he does not like, even if these qualities are in he our she, because if there is then to make a false accusation , who is also doing a great sin and crime, is you. We are not Allah(cc) for to know what happen on the true.
6. Allah resembles the one that makes "Ghibah" one who eats meat from the corpse of his own brother. We must be very careful, because in our everyday conversations we always do "Ghibah" whose burden of sin no longer feel that we are very accustomed to it, which makes us forget that we must ask forgiveness (Tauba). The result will be severe. The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) when he went to the "Meh'raj, saw a trend of people with brass nails with which constantly scratching their faces and their breasts (as a form of punishment) . Jibrail then asked who those people were. Jibrail replied: Are they (the world) went to eat meat of people (ie do ghibah). " (Reporting Tafssir lbn Kassir)
7. It is forbidden to create intrigue as it is also a great sin. The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) says:The scheming will not enter Jannah."(Report AI-Bukhari). But, when it will check a couple (of brothers and sisters), being 'tried' by the discord from an unbeliever or other from Ummah caused by the devil (may Allah cc to protect us against it) .. You run.. run in help. Promote the Peace and understanding between both.
8. Everyone is equal before Allah cc because they are all from the same source: Adam (peace be upon him) And Adam (peace be upon him) is the Earth. The best of them before Allah cc  is most merciful, and He does not look to the face (appearance) of the people or its assets but for their actions and intentions of their hearts. (Reporting Muslim)

The importance of our behavior

If people cared about good behavior and not care about material goods, many evils would disappear from society and people's behavior had improved significantly.

The human being has value because of their moral behavior and not by his bulk, strength or beauty, etc.. 
Because when a man has no good character acts like an animal doesn't know good from evil, just bothering others.These appearances are human beings, but in reality are not. If the value of human being was because of your body, nobody buried after his death.

Today we see many people walk with heads held high, laugh and talk to the base passions, learn things that harm and not benefit them. Apparently know things in the world and falsely claim to eliminate the truth. Believe in Satan, they worship things besides Allah, things that harm them and do not benefit them. They rely on other beings out of ALLAH; spend money on goods and unlawful things, also, with non believer, the law judge on the basis of ignorance, swearing falsely.

These, although appearances of human beings in fact are not. To these the Qur'an considers them like animals or worse. No one should delude themselves by their bravery, as the leopard, lion, wolves are much more brave, one should delude themselves by their physical strength, as the bull, the elephant and donkey are much stronger, and no one must also delude themselves with the load carrying capacity, because the donkey supports more load, and should not delude themselves with their speed as the gazelle, the dog, rabbit run much, one should delude themselves with their good voice, because there are many birds and many musical instruments sounds very beautiful.

However, there is no virtue in these animals because of their qualities, for it is wisdom, in the distinction in practice and in good behavior. It is a grave mistake to concern ourselves with our clothing, our bodies and appearances at the expense of our behavior and our hearts, for true beauty is the behavior and not the clothing and appearance.

The ratio of Muslim to Allah

It is also a big mistake to concern ourselves in improving and reforming our relations with people, forgetting our relationship with our Creator, we care about our worldly life destroying our "Akhirah; improve our relations with great people, ignoring the immediate family. We should not concern ourselves in building our house temporary worldly, leaving to build our eternal home of "Jannah," because if our "Akhirah" is destroyed, "Duniya" we are not worth anything. Unfortunately for many, the realities are reversed and, therefore, treat the "Duniya" as eternal and "Akhirah" as provisional.


And don't forget: THE TESTS ARE BLESSING

Allah tells us that we tested. Allah also makes clear what is expected of us when we go through these trials and what will be our reward if we succeed.

He says: “Surely you will put to the test by fear and hunger, some loss in goods or lives or the fruits of [his work]. And give good tidings to the steadfast. Those who, when afflicted with calamity, say: We are from Allah and to Him we return. These are covered by the blessings and mercy from their Lord, and these are well underway. " [Surah Al-Baqarah 2: 155-157].

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "No fatigue, illness, anxiety, pain, harm or sadness afflicts any Muslim, even the tip of a thorn pricking him, without Allah erase his sins because of that." [Sahih Al-Bukhari and Sahih Muslim].

In another story the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "No Muslim is afflicted by an evil, even if it is a prick from a thorn or something worse, without Allah erase your sins on account of it, and his sins fall like the leaves of a tree." [Sahih Al-Bukhari].

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "When Allah desires good for someone, Allah cc  tests him with difficulty." [Sahih Al-Bukhari].

At the moment of the test to ourself, we do not know, which will be the lessons to being learnt, or the motives that cause the difficulties. 
 But, for to that what they have true faith, it will understand that " they are the ways of Allah cc, so that we understand something, so that we see something, so that we become stronger, so that we can "transform" something " inside us ', and, consequently, " out of us ".

A Muslim can be tested by all kinds of difficulties such as illness, lack of property and disobedience of the children. Indeed, many afflictions that can reach a person is incalculable. This is the point that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was stressing when he mentioned: "Fatigue, illness, anxiety, pain, hurt or sadness ... just the tip of a thorn pricking him".

All these evils, if borne patiently by the believer, are a means of attaining Allah's forgiveness, as well as its reward.

Each of us is being tested by Allah. He tests us all in different ways. We should not assume that the difficulties we face in life are punishments or signs that Allah is displeased with us. Likewise, we should never interpret the successes and pleasures that others enjoy as signs that Allah is pleased with them or that they are privileged. Sometimes the opposite is correct.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "If Allah wants good for his servant, he hastens to his punishment in this world, and if he wants evil for a servant, he retains the punishment for their sins so that He may give it in full on the Day of Resurrection ".

 

Allah makes it clear that everything in our life - good and bad in it - is a test for us. As we face a situation in which Allah has put that to us? We will be thankful in prosperity, patient in affliction, or let's be arrogant and disobedient?

Allah says: "Every soul shall taste death, and We test you with evil and with good, and we shall return." [Surah Al-Anbio '21: 35].

Allah says: "I knew both your wealth and your children are you a proof, and that Allah has reserved you a great reward". [Surah Al-Anfal 8: 28].

Many people do not realize they are being tested so severely with the good that is given them, they are also tested by the misfortunes that befall them. Allah says: "As for man, when his Lord puts the race honoring and gracing it says: My Lord has honored me However, when the evidence, restricting the support, said: My Lord hath humiliated me! ". [Surah Al-Fajr 89: 15-16].

 The solidarity , piety and compassion, test

Allah says: "He created death and life to test which of you is best in deeds." [Surah Al-Mulk 67: 2].

Can also be tested by others. We know from experience that even a small child can go through the suffering, as a person who is mentally disabled to such an extent that can not understand the concepts of Islam and is not legally responsible. Although this person might not be suffering their own tests, but their situation may well be a test for those who are part of your life. How will they treat you? Will they look after him, respect him and give him his due rights?

SO, BE CAREFULLY ABOUT THIS MATTER. ALLAH CC CAN GIVE HARDS TIMES TO OTHER PERSON, BUT THE TEST ARE FOR YOU. FOR TO SEE WHAT YOU WILL DO FOR TO HELP. WHICH WILL BE YOUR OWNER ACTS, FROM THE SITUATION OF THE OTHER.

THEN, THINK: IF YOU LEAVE THE PERSON WITHOUT YOUR HELP... SHE /HE CAN GO TO PARADISE... BUT YOU....................

We may not be able to understand the wisdom behind the decree of Allah that which they do for us or by others of His creatures. However, we must know that Allah does everything according to His wisdom and patience to endure our trials.

We should remember the words of Allah in the Qur'an: "It can not be questioned about what He does, but they will be questioned". [Surah Al-Anbio '21: 23].

SO, When inside a test, be together with who are, too, in same test, for to grown, to win. Recognize Allah cc  way , about the test, in all situation . And stay in the faith, and in the right way, thinking always so: if our beloved prophet Mohammad (SAW) was here for to advise -me , our  in  same situation, what would be his advise our acts?

This question answered , inside of the true, will be the direction for Muslims, remembering that: Our beloved prophet Mohammad (saw) never abandoned ' a brother or sister ", in the middle of the way, it never stopped fulfilling the obligations, even in difficult phase, of tests. And it always treated all the beings with compassion, understanding, and love (true love)!

 “ Oh our Sir, ONLY TO You are all  the Praise, an abundant, big

praise, consent, Blessed. Filling out the skies and when it is filling out

the land and everything what is between them, and filling out

everything more what You could allow. Owner of the Praise and of the

Majesty, the most pure annunciation of a serf and we all are yours

slaves. Please Allah Al Nur give your blessing filling our hearts with

solidariedase. Al NUR, give your blessing illuminating the ways,

illuminating the mind, thoughts. Protect ears, eyes, heart, and each

step to be carried out.

Al Adl , Please, help us to be more charitable, thoughtful, loving, less

selfish. Protect  us from the hipocresy,  helps us to strengthen our

sincerity inside YOUR  taught truth. That we are sincere acting as You

taught, from Compassion to us, through our beloved prophet

Mohammad (saw), and of all the other prophets,  families (ra) and

companions (ra).
 Sir, that our heart is always full, of love true, and devoid of wishes of

the world, helps us Sir, in maintaining truthful Muslims.
 Al  Barr,  Sir  Compassion, then, please, fill our minds, thoughts and it

drowns our hearts with noble feelings, so that we can act with

compassion and piety , from You inside of us, for all to that whom

YOUR, Sir, sent for to be by side of us,  walking together, near, even

nearby or , even, distantly.
Al Muta'al, Al Mani, Al Alim,  Allah CC, our Sir, do, please, our enemies

be a instument for us to  reach all the victories and blessings from

You. Please, do from the enemies a fountain of kindness, help,

prosperity, for all  us, your slaves.
 
 Al Wali, please, our Lord, Al Haqq, Help us to understand that: the

suffering of that to whom we can help,  are tests, from you, to value

our faith, our intentions, our true servitude and humility, because we

are  yours slaves.

 Al Wadud Al Mujib, , Al Afww, Al  Sir, I plead for Your  Compassion to

my family, and grant the union, the Peace, the respect and the

understanding of one for other.
 Sir, each pore, each thread of hair, each molecule of our body, could

at the whole moment say Elhamdulillah Allah Akuberu, because there is

not another truth except only this one:  Only you are Our Allah  Only

one. There is not God, but Allah, only one A COMPASSION, THE

BEGINNING, THE WAY TO ARRIVAL...
I thank for your blessing the our beloved  prophet Mohammad (saw),

so too  Hz Isa (saw) and all the prophets (saw).
 Allah CC, obliged by the family what I have, which I know, he is your

blessing and piety for me, where I knew YOUR LOVE FOR ME.. Who,

you did,   Sir prepared  to guide my life for, to have a possibility of " to

know and survive the truth ".
Al kabir,  I love You  my Allah cc , and nothing will be able to change

this truth, as well "Your  true love for my family", from you,  is in me

also, thankyou for to all, so much.
Al Aziz, Because of  this blessed family, with humility I plead you for

help  him Al Mujib, Al Ghafur, Al Mu'izz, with the protection in completely and any moment, and sending, please,  the angels' , authorities, archangels, to guard him in each thousandth one of secon, his soul, heart, mind, eyes, to hear, thoughts.
Al Mughni  Al Ghani Please, drive him and grants to him the sufficient "profit" for always , him can give the support to the his family, and live "in honor", also honoring YOU, ALLAH AL HADI. Do, Sir, please that his family,respects him. and understand, the biggest is his soul, and so,  Al Tawwab Allah cc

remains in the certain way, in gratitude to YOU, for to have in our

side, the truthful Muslim. Help us to help each to other, with

understanding, more dialog, less prejudice, more true love.. hearing

YOU from our muslim heart. Allah cc Al Zahir, protect our heart, and

give more true love, inside of it,please. 

 Al Salam, is continuous in our relations, please. Al Muqqaddin, give Perseverance, Union, and Help our Deem be Biggest, please,  Sir, Allahuma Amin amin amin