WE KNOW IN OUR HEART MUSLIM....THE PARTNERSHIPS FOR THE LIFE : ONE SISTER WITH ONE BROTHER.
ALLAH SW, PREPARES ONE WITH THE PROPER KNOWLEDGE, TO SUPPORT ONE TO OTHER, WHEN THE MOMENT OF BRINGING NECESSITY NEAR. EVEN WITHOUT MONETARY RECOURSE...
ONE COVER ANOTHER WITH THEIR PRAYERS, DUAS KNOWLEDGES, WHICH WERE GRANTED BY ALLAH SWT
SO, WE ARE ONE NOTHING. WHO CHOOSES THERE ARE NOT FROM THE PARENTS.
The CHOICE WAS WRITTEN BY ALLAH SWT.
And WHEN A HUMAN ONE TRIES TO INTERVENE, A GREAT MISTAKE, AND TO DESTROY TWO LIVES AND FUTURE GENERATIONS.CAN TO HELP TEACHING THAT "NO PREJUDICE",AND BEFORE,ABOUT THE SUNNA, AL QURAN, HADITH, WAY. THESE ARE DUTIES FROM PARENTS, FAMILY.
ALLAHU AKBER, We have the best of example, about partnership between woman and man (sister and brother) in islam,in the marriages of out beloved prophet Mohammad( saw). Him had all type of relation in his marriage, and respected all wifes, in all situation.
Firstly the marriage with our beloved mother hz Khadija (ra), what ' in the half age ", is only women in this acts can you it understand this importance> she got marriage with our prophet, helping him with her experience ... him helped she, for she to stay with diginity, and she did same. Him was the man, blessed, and she too, bcs respected Allah swt "wish", designation, before everything, WITHOUT PREJUDICE, poor or rich life they together, because the marriage is a mission to the soul, to reach our Allah CC, are not because to give food to the NEFS . biggest example.
THEN, with too many marriages, we check the necessity of this " partnerships, for social agreements, politicians, getting citizenship, preservation of the truth, maintenance of the Islam. Preservation of the dignity, which every man must have, and to protect the woman whom Allah swt, sends for the man protects she, with his piety and " responsibility ", being freed of the " animal instincts ".
ALL THE WIVES WERE HAPPY, TREATED WELL WITH EQUALITY.
ONE DOES NOT SPEAK OF " BEAUTY PHYSICS ". The ISLAM TEACHES THE IMPORTANCE OF THE SOUL, OF the PARTNERSHIP, the RESPECTS BETWEEN BROTHERS AND SISTERS. TO MANTAIN IN THE RIGHT WAY, TO PROTECT EACH TO OTHER TO STAY IN THE FAITH.
HELP EACH TO OTHER TO GROWN INT THE MATTERS THAT ONE NEED AND THE OTHER ALLAH CC MADE ABLE TO SHARE TO THE OTHER .
HELP EACH TO OTHER TO GROWN INT THE MATTERS THAT ONE NEED AND THE OTHER ALLAH CC MADE ABLE TO SHARE TO THE OTHER .
Nevertheless, the marriage with hz Aisha (ra), which showed the "piety and the respect up with the companions. And ' protection ' of the honor of the woman. Shown up, when our prophet accepted to get married with her, even she being more young, to when parents were asked of your, for the protection of the honor.
We understand in islam, the importance of the youngs to get marriage early,for don't fall in the corruption of the soul. Because the the biological necessities humans.
We understand about the man to take marriage with a woman for to protect she from the devel, from the badness, from the suffering done , to protect she from the humiliation, so common in this world.
If everybody did so, in this world,many kids was not without a home, parents, real live. and less social problems would have.
Remembering, that this marriage=partnership, it was important for the islam, when we check familiar history.
The wives of our prophet, they was accompanying for Him, in the activities, inside his knowledges and capacity. Being a great example of " I RESPECT THE FEMININE CAPACITY OF TO DO ACTS IN the FORM THAT ALLAH SWT GRANTS TO EACH HUMAN BEING.
So, THERE ARE SO MANY examples, only it acts in the ignorant form
> those that don't know the knowledge (many of Muslims that had not the opportunity will be grown in islamic country)
>those choice the wrong way, and prefer be the soldier of Devel
>those, pure or confuse ' heart ", HEAR others NOT GOOD heart, evil, or ignorant, speaking, interviewing in their lives ..... without you it know the true and others who DONT KNOW, THE PROCEEDINGS BECAUSE, WHO needed to teach the right, DIDNT HIS DUTY. AND STAY , YET, TEACHING THE WRONG WAY.
Some time we do mistakes bigger, because WE DONT KNOW the right. be surse. But the intention is only to protect our husband, family, from the badness from the dunya.
i know that................
But elhamdulillah Allah cc are looking everything.
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About DAUGHTER: THE BEST EXAMPLE we have in the life of our beloved prophet Mohammad (saw) with his daughter " hz Fatima (ra)" .
How many peaces of us, daughter , when read their history, get a big identification about the true love between daughter and her father.... Allah swt knows the best... and this history have a lot of and strong knowledge that the psychology a and studies of the human, western, European behaviour, they are still, walking slowing for the discovery.....
but our heart know everything for who hear Allah swt inside. and DONT HEAR the bad, or the human.
BUT THE TRUE IS: EVERYTHING ALLAH SWT WRITE. AND ARE WITH PERMITION FROM ALLAH SWT
THE CHOICE IS FREE. AND THE PENALTY WILL HAVE.
IMPORTANT IS OUR ACTS AND RESPECT TO ALLAH AND ALL CREATURE.
WHO WANT TO DO MISTAKES WITH OTHERS LIFES, WILL DO, AND OF COURSE WILL DO OTHERS TO SUFFER, AND HARDDDDD.
BUT, ALLAH SWT ARE LOOKING EVERYTHING INSIDE OF US. AND KNOWS!
So,the true is : THE WOMAN THAT HAVE A REAL SUPPORT EMOTIONAL AND FAMILIAR : SHE GROWN. WE ARE SAME FLOWERS,NEED CARE, AND GOOD CARE.
WHO HAVE NOT THE FAMILIAR, MARITAL CARE , GET A LOT OF PSYCHOLOGICAL DIASES, AND FILLED.
ALSO,MAN TOO.
IS SAME IN ISLAM. THIS IS HUMAN MATTER. ALLAH SWT KNOW THE BEST, AND MADE US SO.
ISLAM mean RESPECT: to respect Allah swt law and their creations.
RESPECT is: to care others , understanding and helping their emotional, limitation, knowledge, culture, biological type, cultural environment ;economical situation, reality; SOUL.
To be respectfully about other human is: to have dialog continuum, to be near when to need, to do what to need respecting all their condition and limitation.
The women are fragile when are far from the family, from the protection from parents and/or husband.
Islam is the FIRSTLY , to show this reality:
WOMAN WHEN HAVE CARE IN THE SOUL TO GROWN... THE MHAN , TOO
ELHAMDULILLAHM THR AFAITH , SUBTITION TO ALLAH CC IS ALL. SUBHANALLAH
BUT
NEED PATIENT AND NPERSEVERANCE WHEN THR TIME IS FOR: TESIT AND TO LEARN
TO BE JOINED IN JIHAD... ALLAH CC = AL KARIM
ELHAMDULILLAHM THR AFAITH , SUBTITION TO ALLAH CC IS ALL. SUBHANALLAH
BUT
NEED PATIENT AND NPERSEVERANCE WHEN THR TIME IS FOR: TESIT AND TO LEARN
TO BE JOINED IN JIHAD... ALLAH CC = AL KARIM