BEFORE THINK THAT OTHER IS NEGATIVE; PLS UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY ARE FACING.
ONE DAY CAN BE YOU WALKING IN SAME WAY. ALLAH CC KNOWS THE BEST.
be in this world sharing love turth, patience, care ... the human heart are made for to do this ..
our life is so short. think how many beloveds passed away... and what they what they took with them?
what left? (Only the good acts, the good moments expended to the others for care, get care, good dialogues, share of knowledge is whathave values ... When the day arrive)
Allah cc said:
"Be maintainers of justice and bearers of true witness for Allah, even if it (the truth) goes against your own selves or parents or relatives or someone who is rich or poor." (4:135)
"You cannot attain to righteousness unless you spend out of those things which you love." (3:91)
"They (the true believers) give food, out of love for Allah, to the poor, the orphan and the slaves, to who depend of him for have care, saying: We feed you only for Allah's pleasure - we desire from you neither reward nor thanks." (76:8-9) "The servants of the Beneficent (Allah) are those who walk on the earth in humility." (25:63)
"Do not turn your face away from people in contempt, nor go about in the land exultingly." (31:18)
bismillaharrahmanarrahim
A muslim must take care , before to judice others, and many more, when the other are opressed , and the principals rights are not respected !
Just think, if was you walking with her/his feets, facing what the other are facing, if you would like be judged without mercy .
Then understand, please, and go fastly to be help and not try be a Sheythan tools . Also, what do or do not do (duties to the others what AllahCc sent to u care) today, will suffer tomorrow ( Allah CC said this to us)
There is no human, to remain emotionally intact when their main duties (those related directly with the emotional) is denied. Beause of he / she shall become "the victim of a situation is not positive, and their welfare is strangled; confusion is installed, and the" fear "is fostered.
Then , even the good things, if without have the peace by side of who she/he believe, are not cared is not absorbed so instantaneous. (AllahCC made souls to souls. This mean: when the person will pass some moments, AllahCC, had in advande Provide an other soul, who can believe this soul is to saty by side)
IF WE PASS WAS ALONE FOR THE SITUATION, THEN WAS NOT MORE THAN ONE CREATURE MADE BY ALLAH CC.
ALSO, CC ALLAH SAID IN QURAN FULLY, TO BE JOINED THE muslims, CARE TO EACH OTHERS AS WAS THE CARING OWNNERSELF. CARE AND MANY MORE WHO IS opressed.!! READ Kuran.
so, if the right for be near who is soul family , or have others rights importants , then:
= HE / SHE goes through hormonal changes due to excess adrenaline released (because of the fear). The emotional pressure caused by external pressure, increases blood pressure, and brain can not absorb the facts. = FEAR, caused by external actions, insecurity.
NEGATIVISM = emotional state of a HUMAN, real (with heart, soul and feelings), which had its tacit RIGHTS (right living) denied, with no "plausible reason (halal)
Examples:
The son, hungry, ask an adult for food, and this, he sends his son to go to sleep (denying food).
The son who, in a moment of tenderness, asks for a hug, and the other person says: Get out, your "negative advetivos ...." (with bullying or not this is a human right respected in)
Brother (or sister / son or daughter), who in a moment of necessitade, confusion, asks to talk with other (who can to believe), and this one say "go away .. i am busy
An worker who needs training, the boss asks for guidance, and this (to be stressed) does not respond or responds with tough words.
A child (or adult) who is on guard relatives, and when you need something, or does an act inoscente, relatives beat him (as treating animal)
A family member who needs to see your family, give solutions to problems, but others, among them the right to Negligencied
The closed one that needs help, understanding, moments that we all have (need to share) and the other person angry for other reasons, does not seek understanding.
a worker or family member, or partner of the life, you need to explain in detail to compartilahr and get a solution, then you are denied the right, and yet, it is called "non responsable" or is the victim of misunderstandings.
The orphan who is denied the right to be near the family soul.
The worker who is denied the rights and respect
A Muslim, royal, who is denied the right to be "muslim", or is under trial because his clothes and attitudes, according to the religion ...
When the truth is denied, and people make games, subjulgando and humiliating the other, for your body type, culture or other reasons (absurdly)
A senior citizen who is denied the right to talk of being with their families, or the right to work, etc.
The man, who has responsibilities, and is denied the right to work, housing, welfare juntoa family.
The closed one that needs help, understanding, moments that we all have (need to share) and the other person angry for other reasons, does not seek understanding.
Allahim ya Allah cc, please, care the health the thoughts, hearts, minds, way , of thise important family and those are beloveds souls pure hearts, partners ins this travel name is life... help us reach the goddness , your favors, inside and out side, being joined to reach You Allahim amn