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There are some explanations to understand these thirty days feared before the inauguration of a new age. The anniversary nothing any more is of what the landmark of a new solar cycle in the life of a person, in other words, a new starting point, a revision of life, a glance for " other " asking: because he has and have not I?
 It is a moment signaling a new stage for his conscience, for the reality, which can be used to strengthen the positive characteristics. But, everything depends on "as" we administer this. The days that precede this renovation are exact the last ones of the previous cycle what the conscience was crossing.

 Jean Omar and professionals scholars of the human behavior,   remembers that the cycles we represent traineeships of all and any process of development and that " the end of a cycle " is characterized because of having a quality of time marked by the agitation, change, instability and disorder, when they were added up to the insecurity regarding the future that is because of coming. " This happens because it is in the end of the cycle, that the existent means of expression are sold out in his beginning (to " trial balance " of the actions, planned in a previous dwarf) and they show the residues responsible for his debauchery.
In abridgment, the time that precedes immediately the end of any cycle is characterized for the disorder and for the inversion of the values admitted in yours beginning ", explain the scholars of the human behaviour.

   For the technique of the revolution, each month of the year, counting from the date of the anniversary, it corresponds to a determined house or practical sector of the life of a person, who will be being lived more intensely.
 So, in the first month from the anniversary, the house is survived in the emphatic form month 1: the person is more centered in you herself and in his behavior.
 mês12: of the year correspond to the " evaluation ', and any evaluation, it sends to us to the suffering, since that we analyze, with selfishness, the sacrifices and donations that a person, for duty, fez to others, without waiting for rewards for this, or waiting.
 This act analytics is which caused great upsets "comportments", when we are in the adult phase, and with all the responsibilities, and hormonal changes taking place. With this, we suffer, and very much.

Arriving  to the point of "taking" certain attitudes precipitates, and you do not make positive (big is the upset in our minds, and even bigger, it is the wish of escaping, of us ourselves, of values and beliefs, which form our character) But, it can be different.
 Everything depends on "as" you understand the life.

 This is a moment, which we need to go out from the stage to contemplate more the world and, to be detached, in aid of that what they need an emotional help or practices, which only we, we will be able to carry out. Valuing this: his importance, in way where you live, you will feel better, while valuing that " many importantly  is"to serve " and " be  loved ".
 " It is a period of being an instrument for the good of others and not being so preoccupied by own causes ", affirm the scholars of the human behaviour.

 Since this generally does not happen, there comes the anguish, the emptiness and the sensation of bewilderment, when we reach the end of a stage ( mentally) In spite of not being a mysterious strength set free like many people they imagine, there are symbolic solid explanations for the crisis of the last month of an age, but this does not mean that negative things will happen only in the life of anybody; or what is impossible to deal well with this transition period.
 They all have free-judgement and can, still more, understanding the cycle, in which they are inserted, dedicate this moment to the reflection and evaluation of the finished stage, being prepared without so many scrambles for the near one, in the healthy form: at last, it is one more year of life, one more time in this school, where we are to learn, to serve, to be a usefulness, and " how much is bigger, lovingly, Our Allah (cc) and his blessing in our families, for our children, for our health, our work.
 More, one year without wars. one more year of life. one more year, complete.

Remember, always:
when we are childish, this in the question excitement, because we want to be , we want to trip, we want father, mother, some toys, the cake, the party
 when young persons, we have anxiety, because we want to be adults , we want the gifts , the friends, the party.
 when adults, we feel " depression ", because we want .. and we want and want....

In the next year, do marketing about,Advertise, as child does.
 Demand yours presents. Play with the life.
 Value his conquests, of faith, conquests of yours
 relatives, of yours work: all of them healthy yours conquests.
use your time for to prepare a meeting with the family.
Say to everybody. Be happy. Is more one year finished, with all protection from Allah (cc).

Educating to change

Educating to change

 We need, firstly, to change our concepts of which " the human being, in certain age, cannot change.
 We are creatures of Allah (cc), changeable, in all our characteristics.
 Only, the essence is not managed to "change" " of the evil "


To transform, inside for To change is the capacity of training. For example, the Prophet. Umar (RA), the period of ignorance before Islam gömerdi daughters buried alive. After accepting Islam as Umar (RA), the caliph, although installing the sack on his back, the poor need the items moved to their homes. Both of Omar (RA) is the same. Adjectives, vision, values,  have changed, with knowledge. In essence the same. Who have good soul , good heart, will to change. Who have no... may Allah to protect us from them.

Care , be careful with what come from out side to your heart, nafs and Satan use your eyes, for  General suggestions to our heart, for the wastage of our heart , right way. Things from dunnya are the food for Nefs ve Satan.
Heart zikr find the force. Food supply, to the heart,  dhikr of Allah. The soul food to eat, drink, wear .


To "transform" our self, it is necessary to think about some general concepts, as well as:

HUMAN VALUES

    * Education


People today are lost and confused wondering: Why is this happening? What should we do? But we are nimble, 'solved', and if we understand the problem, we will perform what are necessary to solve it. Persons who have personal weak values, are inclined giving up, but , why?

More and more personal positive values, the ' noble character ' are losing the real value (that is the correct ), and giving space for ' stereotypes ' that are '', today ' the example of ' beautiful, well, correctly. This is the valuable inversion, which causes ' social phobia ' 'stress' ' depression ' and the dismissal of the family, of homes, of the worthy, correct character.

We are the result of our existences,religion, culture,  relationships, influence relatives, it influences of the media, of the group, of the Internet (and his disposable, frivolous, impersonal relations)also,  past influences and sufferings. The technology influence: The same technology what it took from us of the caverns and what launched on the moon was able to show whole populations in fraction of seconds. The same conquests that provide us a more comfortable life, steal from us the opportunities of familiarity and dialog. And in these technological personal items in which the modernity introduced us, the family, especially, lost his most intimate dimensions and was turned into a mere aggregation of bodies that share the same ceiling, though in different hours.
Values are you pound what we build. What it does not mean that we will be so forever - we can today begin a new being, look more and other values and discard our vices. Values can be cultivated, of many people I quote those who are more relevant to drive a run: faith; ethics and respect; compassion and gratitude.

The human values are more investment profitable What can we do for the present but also for the future, because factor that determines success, happiness and truth are the values that believe in and apply. When we bring back the human values our professional relationships, social and ourselves, rights human automatically will become the laws upheld and followed by all, and their duty to Allah(cc) will be easy.

If everyone take care of their own personal values, the world where we live would be much better. Each individual and all collectively determine the future of humanity. The more we accept this personal challenge and responsibility, more safe and secure is the future. The choice is ours.

BROTHERHOOD/SISTERHOOD

Brotherhood/sisterhood is an approximation of equals, where they shared joys, triumphs, difficulties and failures. Brotherhood/sisterhood  is one under which the individual generosity never feel abandoned or deprived of something evil, but is nourished by sense of belonging.

Brotherhood/sisterhood  diversity are the hands that come together to create and share a task. Creates trust, which is the foundation of success in any endeavor cooperative. When we trust in others, fear, intolerance and discrimination dissolve.

The distrust destroys the proximity and therefore faith in another. Interactions between people and nations are often based on suspicion, with the result that we become inclined to believe the worst instead of better.

The trust is created by the awareness of the inherent value of each individual and simultaneously by the appreciation of diversity. The difference of each individual sum, not subtract, to the dignity and worth of the human race.

Often talked of having an "open mind", but now, the crisis of the Century XXI also need to have an open heart ". An open heart separates all the blame and complaint, forgive the past and is enthusiastic and brave enough to seize the opportunities offered by this. The opening of the heart removes any inclination to not understanding, because is willing to believe in the benevolence of another.

Brotherhood/sisterhood always share the two most precious gifts: your time and attention, also, to understand that, need , together to promove actions for to protect the world, to help the society , to help each to others, how is the command from Allah(cc), also, the  Sunna. These are the alpha and omega of a clear channel of communication in the way see things, the positions and differences may or may not be in agreement, but certainly will always to respect the differences.



KNOWLEDGE



Knowledge is understanding. The individual and society can move forward while maintaining an open at different levels and deeper knowledge.

Knowledge removes ignorance and its consequences, ie bias and stagnation.

Knowledge means change. When a new aspect of knowledge enters the mind human resembles a renaissance of consciousness: the birth of a new vision that broadens the horizons of understanding, empathy, and ultimately be.

A education system works for the development of the individual and society, when it is flexible and perceptive enough to accommodate and encourage such novelty and renewal. True education opens the human intellect to investigate, not inhibits, or censorship by the learning habits and dogmas to promote vested interests or biases.

The education (ie, learning for personal development) works at four levels:

1. Information (listen)

Listen and gather ideas, perspectives, techniques that can improve life and conference.

2. Knowledge (understanding)

Think deeply and clearly about these ideas and perspectives as a preparation to customize them and use them.

3. Wisdom (do)

When do we put into practice the knowledge absorbed, it is called virtue or value. These values are the basis for personal and collective dignity.

4. Truth (be)

the that the person puts into practice is what it becomes. Thus the values of peace, freedom, respect,

tolerance are the person and personal empowerment through that there is an increase genuine and the other positive.

We need all four levels, a true education, that is, to a full development of personality.

However, the problem is that people and systems tend to stay at the level of listening and thinking, acting without wisdom. For effecting change, we need pay equal attention to be wise and act wisely.

Wisdom is the art of living with quality through to see that any initiative to develop the individual or company must be accompanied by an updated interior, ie, a reconnection with the spiritual values innate and conscience.

This wisdom in action, gradually establishing a true person, a being who is totally in tune with their needs, rights and responsibilities and As with the other, a natural harmony, respectful, peaceful and benevolent.



DIGNITY



Dignity is closely related to consciousness and self-respect. Dignity means to consciously choose to live according to values universal spiritual and moral. Without values, our character, not on the basis needed to be able to weather the storms of greed, individualism and fragmentation. Without values, personality type is influenced and formed by short-term gains, which create conditions to establish themselves insecurity, fear and aggression.

Dignity is the ability to align my mental attitudes, my words and my actions with my true values and authentic. It is the ability to express these characteristics through my behavior, which will enrich my relationships and increase the quality of my interactions while at the same time, gives me a feeling of inner satisfaction and fulfillment.

If no self-respecting true, will make sure that our words and actions contribute to the daily emotional and spiritual development of us ourselves and all around us. This feeling of success and progress so the basis for respecting the values of all people.

There a multitude of principles and concrete rules, and a person who respects himself it learns to respect them and follow them, living according to them. A person with dignity does not compromise the values that you believe, because recognizes that this would reduce their quality of life and violate personal rights of others. We all have the right to peace, the internal happy relationships and a harmonious coexistence. However, these fundamental rights can be protected only when we have the courage to live according to moral values in which we believe firmly.

A person has dignity, to the extent that they are not selling for ephemeral comforts, for lust, positions and promises.

That that is worthy can sacrifice personal advantage to gain collective name - this is an honorable person.

the world needs such people - individuals who are able to heroically address the problems rather than away from them - people who are ready to do everything to ensure that standards of peace, respect and love of all people are kept.



F R A N T E R I D D E



Fraternity is the relationship that unites everyone in one big global family. Fraternity is the consciousness with which we can transcend all differences outside that separate us and divide us in black and white, rich and poor, Christians and Muslims. The list of differences can be infinite even between two persons of the same religion and same nationality.

With the attitude of brotherhood, all conflicts, all the fights and all the wars are replaced by understanding, tolerance and solidarity. This attitude comes easily when we understand that we are all interconnected and that the differences are not a threat. It is these differences that make world more beautiful, like a garden filled with a variety of flowers. However, if there is no tolerance, these same differences are the reason for conflict and fragmentation.

Fraternity is the message and the need for our era, because fraternal feelings automatically produce an atmosphere of mutual cooperation. Nothing great can be achieved without the element of cooperation. regardless of what the religion they belong, regardless of our citizenship, our color skin or our social status, we are all in the same boat. We are all citizens the same planet. We're all souls, children of the same God.

The fraternity can do wonders because it focuses our attention on the goodness inherent in each. To realize the goodness in ourselves and in others, we are able to build bridges that cross all boundaries, all limitations, discrimination and are able to join our hands and hearts together transform this world into a place a harmonious and happy.

 

EQUALITY



equal between people assumes that everyone has the same rights and also the same responsibilities. People know very well how to claim their rights, but how many are willing to commit to their responsibilities in same extent?

Mahatma Gandhi said that our rights are nothing more than the result of responsibilities properly fulfilled. While we are at the gates of the Century XXI, in many places around the world the conditions of injustice and inequality still exist, either between men and women, between social classes, among religious groups or between nations. 0 individual has been identified with situations limited and social positions that give a sense of superiority. Thus, people have lost respect for his fellow men and with this, also lost his consciousness. People can explore and stifle the and still others may justify his actions with arguments intelligent. However, everything has its inevitable consequences.

The arrogance that comes from the feeling of superiority causes damage, or destroy completely the individuality of others and violates their rights fundamental.

The attitude of equality in a group or a society nurtures spirituality. The genuine spirituality creates a sense of belonging, of being a great family. In one family there are different personalities, but all feel to be the members of a group. All people have essentially the same needs, the same desires for peace of mind, of unselfish love, respect and happiness.

The equality is naturally created when we are inwardly happy with us same with our lives and when we need no external approval for our own values.

The individual freedom also forms the basis of equality. Freedom of what? The greater freedom is the freedom of our own ego. It is necessary in get rid of wrong perceptions and beliefs limited. It is necessary reorder our values and our principles because they determine the quality of our lives.



JUSTICE



Justice is the name given to the universal law or power that maintains the rights and safeguard nature of the individual against exploitation, abuse and violence. Justice in taught to respect individual rights and freedoms: when we do not respect the rights of others in their personal expression and happiness, is simply a matter of time before we lose our own too right. Also, participate or be indifferent to any kind of violence with others, robs us of our dignity and rights.

justice maintains a balance of rights and dutyes ( responsabilities) , not only the human species, but also of nature, is equality for all. Very often forget the rights of Mother Nature, whose presence sustains us. So that their right to peace and harmony has been often trampled by humanity in the name of progress.

Justice is naturally maintained when rights are balanced with the responsibilities, otherwise there is an insistence on personal rights without reference to the rights of others.

The Violence destroys the purity of justice. Sometimes, revolutions against oppression take an escalation of violence in full the moment, while climbing to power, the oppressed abuse their positions and revenge is camouflaged falsely by the name of justice. This underlying motives of justice with revenge, hatred or greed is a contradiction. The blind justice created by the people is destructive and preferred, whereas the true justice, as an inherent principle of life, keep peace and order, is universal. No human being has the right to take justice into their own hands.

The True justice can be maintained only when all cooperate on mutual respect for the welfare of the individual, community and nature.



FREEDOM
IT IS NOT A LICENTIOUSNESS




A of the highest aspirations of people in the world today is being free, but with carefull ,  having like ' principal value ' ' the moral aspects. Freedom are not Licentiousness.   The People want the freedom to lead a life with purpose, to be healthy and prosperous. Freedom is a precious gift that enables a experience a feeling of release and there is no limit, as if we were all one. Freedom allows us to choose, at any time about the direction of our lives and our own development.

The Freedom can be understood wrongly as a gimmick that allows me to do 'What I like, when I want, with whom I like. " True freedom is exercised and experienced when everyone has the same rights equally. Violate the rights of one or more, under any pretext, is a violation of freedom. Only when there is full freedom rights are balanced with choices and responsibilities are balanced with conscience attending the religious beginnings.

Th world will not be free of wars and injustices to people becoming freed from their egoism. The 'iron chains' that stifle people and nations, will only be broken when the 'current' anger, selfishness, greed and violence break. Freedom means to conquer our own feelings of hostility, revenge and morbid desire. Such freedom has a effect of liberation for all. Freedom to provide individual freedom in our relationships and interactions.



That who is RESPONSABILE is also free, because it will make good use of everything that is available to him. the responsible use of natural resources, weather, relationships, wealth etc.. depends on the level of response we have to breast- with them. 0 ensures compliance and protects an enduring freedom. When we lose our respect for something, then we went to his slave mentally emotionally, economically or physically.



PEACE



The challenge to peace appears regularly on the question: "Humans are, by nature, violent or nonviolent? "If the answer is: they are violent, so the concept of peace becomes nonexistent. Experiencing peace mind has become a popular cliche. But what does this mean? People say who want peace in the world, but what kind of peace you want? Can to have peace, who don't respect law from Allah (cc)? Who will to have peace, without to respect their family and others that need of them?

Peace is the foundation, the main block on which a company raises functional and healthy. Peace is the prominent feature of what we call a civilized society 'and the character of a society can be seen by consciousness conference members. A civilization may be for paradise or demonic, depending on the state of consciousness of its members and their actions for to be in the right way. Consciousness creates their cultural norms, values, systems and consciousness can also turn culture.

Bring back peace to the social sectors, economic, political as well as others in society would require notice it at two levels: external and the procedure.

Educate for peace, resolve conflicts, as well as all peace initiatives that have take seriously a critical engagement between the individual peace and world peace.

Through creative insight, the individual can find within itself a vast potential for peace and tranquility. With this experience, the process of internal disarmament starts automatically: the release of anger, fear and hatred. Inner peace is then reflected in the behavior, actions and personal relationships and thereby creates new social patterns. The experience of Personal Peace makes the idea of world peace a reality as possible.


R E S P E C T



Respect is the natural consequence of self-respect. A good way to win Respect is knowing our own worth and be considerate towards the value of others. Respect is based on the understanding that each individual is a unique being, a spiritual being, a soul. Respect comes from understanding the their innate worth and rights that every individual and society possess.

A Since the individual has reached a state of dependence on external factors, instead of relying on their own inner powers, shall require the respect based on external references, such as social status, nationality, religion or popularity. The more respect is given by some external factor, plus the desire for recognition by others, too increases. And the greater the desire, the more we get this sense of 'victim' and thus lose self-respect and respect for others.

The power of discrimination establishes a respectful environment in which there is attention the quality of intentions, attitudes and behaviors. To the extent where there is the power of humility in respect to itself - and the wisdom provides that to be fair to others - there will be success in the form of enhance the individuality, appreciate diversity and lead to complete task consideration.

The  balance between humility and selfless service in autorespeito Results and protects the arrogance and narrow-minded mind. The arrogance damages or destroys the uniqueness of others and violates their fundamental rights. Such temperament also hurts the person who violates the respect of others.



TOLERANCE



The world, our great human family can be described as a large tree with many branches, twigs and buds. Every nation represented by a branch is a brother or sister who has her own family. When the historical origins are seen through the family members in a family tree, is possible to realize the complementarity between all people, which demonstrates that that coexistence is possible.

The tolerance is the goal of peaceful coexistence. Due to tolerance, recognize the individuality and diversity, removes disguises and disables tension created by ignorance. Provides the opportunity to discover and remove stereotypes and stigmas associated with people regarded as different because of their nationality, religion or origin.

By have an open mind and genuine understanding, a tolerant person attracts someone different and to accept and adjust to living with that person, demonstrates tolerance in a practical way. As a result, relationships thrive. Tolerance is an inner strength that enables the individual to confront and transform misunderstandings and difficulties. It's like a shield that allows us to stay full, happy and not be threatened by people or circumstances.

A tolerant person is like a tree with fruit abundance. Even when playing or hitting rocks with a stick, the tree bears its fruit in return. "Tolerance is not concession, not indifference. Tolerance knowledge is another. It is mutual respect through mutual understanding. Let's throw out the old myths and understand what is happening. 0 man not is violent by nature. The intolerance is not in 'our genes'. 0 fear and ignorance are the root cause of intolerance, and its standards can be found early in the psyche human. "


May Allah (cc) to have compassion and piety of our, and to guide us, always for the straight path. inshAllah. amin

reflexions about What is a woman muslim

Women   Powerful  x Women of Faith VS Powerful

the Muslim woman are not so different.
the difference are in her intention about their acts.
the values.

DIFERENCES:

The  powerful woman works out every day to keep your body in shape,
but  woman of strong faith prostrate in prayer to keep her soul in   way.

The powerful woman have not afraid of anything,
 but a woman of strong faith  shows courage in the midst of your fears.

The  powerful woman does not let you take the best,
but a woman of faith Powerful gives his best for everyone.

The powerful woman makes mistakes and are happy, sepaking "i am human",
but   powerful woman of faith realize that mistakes, without to want, and when know about her wrong acts, have big afraid for to do the right,  also blessings of life         of  Allah , because she learning, and ask for refuge in Allah (cc)  for dont to have wrongs , in the future .

The  powerful woman is definitely moving, without to think in others, or to ask ,
but a woman of strong faith,  ask to her husband, before, and ask to Allah(cc), the refuge, and   when she falls, has sabr(Have faith in Allah (cc)  that everything will improve or change), and do what is right to her husband and she to stay in right way.

The  powerful woman brings the picture of confidence on her face and body, but the woman   of powerful faith in her face carries the picture of  the strong power from her faith in Allah, and the sweet eyes with modesty, bashfulness, also , pleasure in her actions,  trying to learning and  to have good characther.


The powerful woman, has in his work, and social way, a way to attend his wishes of "lust",
but, the woman with the strength of the faith, works in order that his husband helps, in his conquests, paw the good to be of the family, to collaborate with the Ummah , also her duty in the islam.

The   powerful woman strives to look beautiful and perfect, but the woman  of strong faith know that nothing is more attractive than the ornament of faith   and the beauty of taqwa (Religiosity, righteousness) eloquence and kindness, shame, her honor ,  dignity, obedience to the laws from Allah(cc) , obedience to her husband, and to help the ummah to grown is , too, her beautiful.


The powerful woman has heart of the persons distributes the "lust" in, looking for " goods " for her own,  
 but, the woman with strength in the faith, search sows " the faith ' and the "rectitude" between brothers and sisters.



The powerful woman has learned that faith is strong enough to face the  her  journey alone;  but of mighty faith has faith enough to know what is  on her journey she will become strong, with the protection of Allah (cc) and with the support from  her husband.

Source: NOOR     
 An-Nissa


> EQUALITY:
The powerful woman, the  woman of strong faith, THEY WILL  BE OLD AND TO DIE.
the two will have to answer for Allah (cc) for her acts in the life.

ALLAH..BE WITH US ..

OH Allah,  we are your slaves.. all the time you send

blessin to us, to enjoy in  ... ohhh Allah , please, protect my true family from this .. what have and we cannot to see... please .. protect us.. leave us from enemies. show to us the true way, from you, to you... please   Allah... now again . no... please Allah... give all protectors,  for  to  leave us from the  others negative forces

that, all the time make us to do mistakes. inside us and out side.. leave us from this fear.. what we have inside us and make us  toleave the right ways, to leave yours blessing, and to leave alone who love us so much, with the love from you..... Allah, please... please...you know what happen again.. please help us.. amin  ... a

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Allahu Allah by Ahmad Mansouri with ENGLISH TRANSLATIONS!!!

Allahu Allah by Ahmad Mansouri with ENGLISH TRANSLATIONS!!!

Syrian Mufti & Ashoora

A Mufti in Syria talks about the fear of Sunni leaders about their people becoming Shia.Syrian Mufti & Ashoora
Arabic lecture with English subtitles hope you listen carefully to the words been said.

Promote the goodnes

If you are between two persons, who talk, who attack one other one. Do not stop helping. But, do so that the dialog, it prevails between them.
 Do so that one remembers of the teachings of Allah (cc) in our lives.
 Never, abandon someone. Do everything for brothers and sisters, be in peace, together, in union

Our Allah( cc) never put 2 together , for nothing.
but, we never can to forget that The cursed devil, that Allah (cc) protects us from him, is ALL THE TIME,  in our lives, in our mind, trying to divert what was , to separate what was " for Allah (cc) united

Sura 93: "By the hour morning and evening when you are calm, that your Lord has not forsaken or you hated. And indeed the Hereafter is better for you than the present. Soon you decorate your Lord, so that you meet. Perhaps not find you an orphan and you shelter? Not find thee wandering and you sent? Do not think you need and enriched? Therefore, the fatherless, not oppress, nor repulses the beggar, but the bounty of thy Lord in your speech ",

"Thou cloaked! Arise and warn! And praises to your Lord! And thy garments! And all abomination shun! And do not expect any increase (in interest), but perseveres in the way of thy Lord. "


 example in normal case: 

When great companions fight, and one is going to complain for a third one ... we should never have done the reading from what: that what complains, is trying ' to be removed ' of other.
 This one,  is yes, trying to understand his/her mistakes, and looking for ' help ' so that all the evil is dissolved.
 He/she is looking for the ' understanding of the facts.
 He/she is looking ' to try to understand ' his/her mistakes.
 He/she is trying ' help ', with an intermediary, so that everything is well, again.


claim sometimes, or normally, a child, or young person, or up to the same adults..
 they fight .. but, they can to talk..


so, if you are between 2 persons, promote the Dialog



The right is; DIALOG DIALOGS and DIALOG.
 After all, we are the only beings, able to reason.
 
 Big healthy the gifts of Allah(cc) in our lives.
 
OUR DUTY is: TO BE ABLE TO USE THESE GIFTS!
 

Never forgetting: From Allah (cc) came ... to Allah (cc) we will return, inshAllah.

BE CAREFULL WITH WHAT YOUR EYES LOOK AND THE PREJUDICE.. WE ARE NOTHING!

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 WE ARE SOUL. AND THIS IS IMPORTANT: WHICH TYPE OF SOUL WITH ARE.

                             RECOGNIZE ALLAH CREATIONS, AND BE GREATIFULL

                             BECAUSE OF THE LIFE, AND THE LOVE FROM ALLAH TO YOUR LIFE

                             WE DONT KNOW OUR TOMORROW........................................................

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FORGIVE ME ...ACTS ( what i am believing)

Bismillah ir-Rahman ir-Rahim

" That what will do a good, wants that it is of the weight of an atom.,  will see it; and that what will do an evil, wants that it is of the weight of an atom, he will see it. " (99th Surata, verses 7 and 8)


I am reading , in a continuum process "to live".. like everybody, i believe that i am human, and human have
the life  for to learn , all the time, no important their age, if man or woman, age, from where are, economical situation, brain.. so, everybody are here for to learn and have capacity for to exchange, in all moment of the life;and, for to have good way, and goods transformations,  need of the others  . I mean, one learn with others, and all the creations from Allah, are sample to us, in this great school. Nobody are better than others. Only different.

The separation is not the goodness bcs when is between two souls in mission by Allah cc, then it is high  badness. wrong or right

We need, in all moment, to remember the law from our Creator , reading the Quran,also  Let's observe the caution of the Rasul Allah  ( Hadith , Sunna)

In the Quran there are explanations and examples for those what for him they want to rule his lives, and exhortation for the one who has heart and is disposed accepting it, and giving evidence. It reveals the inalterable Law of Allah, want that it is in the perdition of the mislaid ones, he wants that it is in the salvation of the directed ones.

It teaches that the world of the men, in the course of the centuries, is only beneficial with the Allah's religion; that the humanity, which he wants what it does, will not reach the longed happiness not to be illuminated, driving with the Divine Message.

There are revelations of the future on the day of the Resurrection, on the future life, in the day in which the men will congregate near the Sir of the Universe.

" That what will do a good, wants that it is of the weight of an atom.,  will see it; and that what will do an evil, wants that it is of the weight of an atom, he will see it. " (99th Surata, verses 7 and 8)

There is the judgment of the problems and of the questions where there is pressing an explanation and a directive of the way following, what concerns the questions of the belief and of the thought, of the character and of the behavior, of the economical relations, of the branches doctrinaires , of the personal judgments or not: " Oh human, already a convincing proof of your Sir brought you near and we send to you a translucent Light. " (4th Surata, verse 174) " Looks Them the day in which we will make appearing a witness of each people to testify against his, which we will present to you for witness against yours.

We you have been revealing, so, the Book that is an explanation of everything, it is a guide, compassion and patronage for the Muslims. " (16th Surata, verse 89) there is no religious law or a problem, what concerns the world and the life of the men, which has not inside a solution; it is a help to an inexhaustible one, guide, explanation and direction for all,  wants that it is in parts or in all: " A Light and a Lucid Book brought you near already of Allah. " (5th Surata, verse 15)

Yes, this fabulous Koran is the light advisor for the humanity.  Pulled out it of the darkness and transported it for light, for the truth and for the true path. It was the point of transformation in his long history, taking away it of the merciless life of corruption and taking it to the life of freedom, of religion and of direction, and it set the right and the understanding up, in the world completely, when there are lifting up the humanity of the lowest step the summits of the perfection, of lofty way.



We have the sunna and hadith, where we can to take samples for to help us in our actions.

All the time remembering that : NOBODY IS BETTER THAN NOBODY

So, To pray, to be polite, to do the 5 pillar of the islam are our duties, important of din. But. can not criticizing , to offend, to prejudice others because collor, type, origine, acts, etc.

Inside of the Ummah we are everybody sisters and brothers. Of course have , too,  humans with good characters and not good characters. But is not our duty to criticize the others.


The arrogance and pride to affected. She allowed that this attitude, for the sake of Allah, make her feel superior, or even safe. Nobody has a guarantee. We do our best to please Allah, but all must rely on the mercy of Allah. Nor can we know who will saved from the fire. We do not know what Allah will do, so why not ignore someone do what we do is arrogant and needs to be avoided.

Abdullah ibn Mas'ud narrated: "The Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) observed:  who holds in his heart the pride, even though the size of a mustard seed, not enter Paradise. A person (amongst his hearers) said: Verily a person loves that his dress is elegant, and his shoes are beautiful. He (the Prophet) remarked: Verily, Allah is Merciful. Pride is disdaining the truth and despise the people. "Sahih Muslim: Book 1, No. 0164.

Some of my fellow Our beloved Prophet were so afraid that they were not doing the maximum for Islam that came to tremble with fear of Allah, while they were spending the night praying and day fasting and devoting their lives to Allah. Who are we to think we have a warranty?

In the previous hadith, Rasul Allah clearly tells us that we have no right to despise each other. Even if the person is a sinner, we do not have that right. Take the example of adulterer who was punished. The man confessed and was stoned to death.

*... The Prophet heard one of his companions saying to another: "Look at this man who tried to hide their lack Allah, do not let the matter drop, so he is like a stoned dog. "The Prophet said nothing to them but walked for a while until the corpse of a donkey with its legs in the air. He asked, "Where are so and so? "They said," Here we are, Apostle Allah. "Then he said:" Get down and eat some of this body of donkey. "They replied: Apostle of God! Who can eat that? "He said: "The shame that you just do your brother is more serious to eat some of it. By Him in Whose hand my soul is, he is now in the rivers of Paradise and plunging into them. Sunann Abu Dawud, Book 38, No. 4414.

What an example! The man had committed a greater sin. He had confessed sin. However, his repentance was sincere. We should not judge others for their mistakes and sins, because it is for Allah only. We can apply the punishments which Allah has commanded us, but it is up to Him only forgive them or not. It is not we who decide. Do not know what's going on people's hearts. We can talk with someone who is not doing what Islam orders, such as wearing the hijab, wear a beard or prevent music, or whatever, but we can not even imagine that we are better than that person. Why not know their circumstances or what is in your heart or even your destination. This belongs to Allah.


And the example of the adulteress. If saw on the street, what would we think of it? However, she had forgiven their sins by because of one little thing that did. Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle said, "A prostitute was forgiven by Allah, because, passing by a panting dog near a well and seeing that the animal was dying of thirst, he took his shoe, and tying it with her headscarf, and drew out some water for give the dog. And Allah forgave her because of it. "Sahih Bukhari: Volume 4, Book 54, No. 538.

Of course we can not be happy with their sins, but we teach it, maybe to punish her, but never insult her or we think we are much better than her. Moreover, we should be friends of those that we commit sins, if we can. The person may simply be ignorant of correct Islamic practices. We try to teach them and maybe gain something ourselves from this effort. It may be that this person has something to us offer in the way of good.

We can to be,  constantly, shocked  hearing, yet, about stories when one human despise others because of their origins, or because they are poor, or even because they are rich, because they converts, perhaps because accepting Islam, but doesn't wasborn inside islamic family, or in a islamic country. However, many of these same brother and sisters are much stronger in their faith after accepting. NO IMPORTANT CHARACTER ECONOMIC-CULTURAL- SOCIAL- PHYSICS.. IMPORTANT IS THE CHARACTER MORAL .. HEART... FAITH.

We have to stop to be so virtuous in to prejudice. We, as Muslims, we are criticizing each other when should seek to help each other. Allah says: "... You in auxilium virtue and piety. Do you not assist each other in sin and hostility but fear God, Allah is strict in punishment. " (Quran 5:2)

When we are tough on a else when we despise, we may be pushing one that is weaker than because we sinned. Think about it. Would you accept advice from someone who despises or Insults? Of course not. We must respect and love the man who advises us. No matter the size of the error, we must never think we're better and that, therefore, we right to insult or despise anyone. What better example than that of our merciful Prophet. Narrated Anas bin Malik: A Bedouin came and urinated on a corner of the mosque. The people shouted at him but the Prophet stopped them till they are the finished urinating. Then the Prophet ordered them to throw water that place and they did so. "Sahih Bukhari, vol. 1, Book 4, No. 221.


The Muslims shouted with him were abusive, but the Prophet in his great mercy and wisdom, knew that this is not the best way to teach. My old teacher, Ghassan Al Baraqawui, once told me "Teach, do not preach, because people like to explanation, not confrontation. "wise words. 
We should meditate on what think and say so that we can help each other and not destroy ourselves. No There is none amongst us who can claim perfection. 
There is none amongst us you are sure that will enter Paradise without any kind of trial or punishment. We need not try to usurp the role of Allah, believing in each other.

Pride is dangerous. Look to the caution of Rasul Allah. We must avoid the feeling of pride, even though our Islam. Narrated Abdullah bin Umar: The Apostle of Allah said, 'On the Day of Judgment, Allah will not look at him who drags his robe with pride. "Abu Bakr said," If I did not take care, a part of my verges on the mantle floor. "Allah's Apostle said," But you do not do it pride. "Sahih Bukhari, vol. 5, Book 57, No. 17.


 SORROW OR RESENTMENT is a result of the Pride,  Vanity and arrogance and it are the instruments of Satan. When Allah told him to prostrate himself before Adam, he refused and this was his undoing. Allah says "And when we say to the angels: Prostrate yourselves before Adam! They prostrated, except that Lucifer and lofty, if denied, and included among the unbelievers. "

If you see this in you, beware of trying to justify it. Take the example of Satan with their explanations, when Allah questioned him about his refusal to prostrate. "She asked him (Allah): What was it that prevented you from prostrating yourself, although we had to pay? He replied: I am better than him: You created me from fire and him from clay. I told him, Go down from here (the Paradise), for it is not allowed to be haughty. Get thee hence, because you are one of abject! " (Quran 7:12-13)


We can not afford to fall this horrible trap of Satan. We can not feel better than others, because the sin of pride is great. Allah says: "When it is said theme that God takes possession of him pride, inducing him to sin. But hell You will be sufficient punishment. An evil cradling! (Quran 2:206)

So, brothers and sisters: Next time you see someone different  in appearance or action, think times before you can find better than that person. you see someone doing wrong, either... you can, go to her\him with affection and kindness and advise them. Do not assume the worst. Give him or her apology to the 70 sin and try to help her\him or help her to understand the evil in question. Do not expect a change. Just advice. Let God take care of the changes. The person may get angry or argue with you. Do not fall for this trick of Satan. Only show him the evidence of God's book and Sunans authentic. That is for them to accept or reject the and your job will be done. But do not let him think you are superior to him.

Also, next time you see someone from another culture or origin, not judge them based on your preconceived notions about that group. See the individual. Talk to him / her. Who knows if it will have some advice that might bigger benefit you, from Allah?

Only Allah knows our history, the ways,  and all motives in our life.

Do not assume that because you look more like a Muslim, you are the best of them. This pride and arrogance that you feel can destroy it. Fear Allah, brothers and sisters. Fear Allah and give each Muslim is his due. As I said many times before, the worst and most wretched among us, is better that the best of non-Muslims and it is our job to advise us each other to that light in the darkness and make clear the filth of sin.

Allah made us so that we to love one another. Allah made us so that we  to help  each other. Allah prohibits us from us we hurt each other. Allah made us true brothers and sisters. Therefore, let us one body, one heart. Amen

So i think, and , for now, maybe i am wrong, but i understand  and believe:

Forgive and live.

If you do not forgive today ...
Tomorrow, right
Your day will be more dark
His steps are less firm
Your problems will arise more complex.
His hurt will hurt a lot more ...
If you do not forgive now
Will be in your path, later?
Sorry while you can, so that, future
not fall on your head the sufferings and complaints of many.
Forget the evil so that evil does not remember us.
The fire of affliction devastates consciousness that did not get enough force to wash up in the living waters of great compassion.
Who does not forgive the mistakes of similar, condemns himself.
Who does not forgets the offenses, becomes a burden of cruelty.

Do not stop!

FORGIVE ... forgive me


TO GUARD SORROW OR RESENTMENT IS HOW IT WILL TAKE POISON

Do never be let the sun put on any anger or resentment; better even it is not to get angry!

FORGIVE

Assists others without the worry of receiving the support of others.
Everything we do now, what will reap later.
Consider, however, that to rectify the discrepancies in the gear of our mutual relationship, the Lord gives us the blessing of compassion.
Noted the presence of friends to discern candidates with higher natural flaws through which they identify, have mercy upon them and sustains them with the forces at your fingertips.

Embraces the work of good to others with joy.
Learn to put the welfare of others, in the belief that no progress alone.
 works constantly and serve.
And please make sure that where the wishful thinking of the good to prevail, there shines the path to improvement of our souls to Allah, strengthening us so that we are in achieving the best.

In any difficult situation, apparently insoluble, use more patience, because patience is the soul of the building on the foundations of faith in Allah (cc), and applying more patience wherever you are in any affliction, lest you appear clearly win.

Do not stop!

Makes the presence of a partner who hurt you and forgive, helping him recover.. IF HE/HER TO ACCEPT,
SOMETIME WAS , ONLY A SITUATION.
BUT BE CAREFULL,

SOMETIME ARE ENEMY TRYING TO DO YOU , TO BE OUT SIDE FROM THE RIGHT WAY. SO,CAN TO FORGIVE, AND GO AWAY, IF IS THIS

BUT , IF NOT: FORGIVE

Reflects and sustains it!
How many pain disorders and how many will lash the soul, before the word it would rise to offend you or
before your arm, armed by the misunderstanding, it granted the coup against you depressing?
Guard helps calm and without ceasing.
Later, it is possible that you can not, for your turn, bear the horrendous storm of wrath and complain, also, the
balm of understanding others.
Return to your home or your struggle and spread again, the blessing of love, all hearts that lie poisoned
the gall of cruelty or the poison of slander.

Do not hesitate, though!

Forgive now while the opportunity for rapprochement favors the good wishes you because you probably tomorrow , the  light of the opportunity will have passed and you will not find, around you but the ashes of repentance and bitter tears.


Forgiveness change reality because it is encounter with the truth.

To forgive is to reattach the broken relationship abdicate personal trial

Forgiveness is not easy, but it is the most effective way for human society healthy and happy. Our live and live to survive through that forgiveness is an attitude of unconditional love, understanding, compassion and great wisdom.

Who does not forgive is a loser. Loses two to zero because frustrates the human relationship and carries within it the garbage of hurt and bitterness.

Who forgives reaches zero to zero, ie, restores the communion and expels the poison of resentment. Is physical health, psychological, social and spiritual. The remedy is forgiveness, healing, excellent therapy. This act is to recognize all diferences that the others can to have, because Allah created everbody diferent. So, Forgive are a big act recognizing Allah's creations, and , also, to recognize that you have mistakes, do mistakes, and probable that will to do others, of couse. Then, you will to be able for to have forgiving to you.

Who doesn't forgive, not forget the evil and suffering the disease of "repetition compulsion"; lives always remembering, again, relieving the pain inside. Why not forgive, will always blame someone and getting revenge. This all increases the suffering and physical exhaustion.

Forgiveness is taking the root of bitterness.

To forgive is to understand, quit judging and blaming others. This is possible when we recognize that we are clay. Nobody is infallible. When we accept our clay and the other, we forgive. With apologies could give new meaning to the fact that hurt us, we have new understanding, new look, new feeling about things and people. Forgiveness change reality because it is against the truth.

To forgive is to reattach the broken relationship is to put yourself in the hands of another, give up the trial staff. It is a gesture of generosity in which we are the gift of ourselves.

Without forgiveness we are heavy, sick, depressed, aggressive, ruthless.
To be human forgive is yourself.

Lack of forgiveness is false and barren prayer.
The rancor, the bitterness, resentment prevent the action of grace.
The negative feeling is an energy that turns into poisonous disease, insomnia, aggression, immorality, drunkenness, noise, partying, etc..
Many of life's problems are rooted in unforgiveness.

The bitterness, resentment, bitterness and feelings are destructive energies. So, who does not condone hate the truth, it carries poison in the soul, destroys the well deviates from the charity, lives in bitterness and criticism, it hurts the heart slowly dies, he feels lost. One can only emptiness, loneliness and the noise to drown out the inner unrest.

MAYBE I AM WRONG...

IF A AM WRONG; FORGIVE ME

AND TEACH ME THE RIGHT.