social costs of the 'EDUCATION' BY MEDIA

 social costs of the 'EDUCATION' BY MEDIA

All scholars, of the human behavior, we are, in this it finalizes decade, when they were preoccupied, about the " inversion of values ".
 
 The technological system, it evolved, in the form geometric. But, the human being, still did not "evolve" psico-socially

When we talk about the evolution of the man, we speak, in his "general" constitution ,  remembering what: what defers the human one of the animal, is our "mental" capacity, to act, NOT in the instinctive form.

But, the industry of the media, it works, and with result, to maintain the human " mentally primitive ".

Or be: The (HUMAN) MAN TO LIVE, TO SATISFY THE WISHES. WHERE THE INSTINCTS ARE 'FED' DAILY '.
 
                               >>>  HUMAN LIVING FOR AND TO  THE INSTINCT<<<

 In short, the family lost influence as a system of socialization and transmission of values. 

Children and young people have less contact with adults able to positively influence the development of their character and their value system. 

Simultaneously, we witness an increase in the influence of "new media" in the process of socialization and transmission of values. The loss of authority and influence of teachers is area accompanied the decline of the influence of families. Among the "new media, television has a role in the socialization of children and young. It is plain that the educational potential of television is far from meet demand. 

The public and the families have to start recognize that television is an instrument that can be used to educate or to uncivilized. Democratic a society, it is for citizens and consumers to exercise freedom of choice and is not admitted to state censorship programs television. However, civil society, through non-governmental organizations and private associations can play a role in public enlightenment on deeds of violence and cruelty on television, in the periods in which children are usually in front of the TV. 

Basically, the decision-making power remains belong to families. It is these that must choose not to see the programs television that can bring harm to children's education. If there is a public awareness about the harm that cruelty, violence and pornography on television can bring to the education of children, I believe that families begin to make the right choices, turning off the television whenever pass such programs. The problem is that it lacks public awareness and to In addition, parents are not always home at times when children watch these programs, or , most times, they are if using of others, media, and being, also, influenced negative . (they are, also, using Internet, or tv, or other technologies: completely  hypnotized)
 
 So, they stop "being necessary" with his "paper" and " responsibility ".

“ The persons consume, today,  more pornography of what never ”, he said the investigator Mary Eberstadt, Who should accomplish pornography with the expectation of improving his sex life will be able to make it worse, studies prove which consumers of pornography are less happy.

 Discoveries and Recommendations and his associate inquiry, it are of preoccupying deeply.
 P. Langdale Hough) – In last month in the National Club of Press in Washington, D.C., the Institute Witherspoon informed on a series of academic discoveries and recommendations about the social costs of the pornography.
 In December of 2008 a varied group of academics, doctors and one brought together journalists in Princeton, New Jersey, to begin an initial investigation on the social damages of the consumption of the pornography in: men, women and children.

 The academic participants had come from a spacious variety of specialized professions. Psychiatrists, legal, medical specialists and economists joined a rigorous analysis of the neurological, psychological, economical, social, political, legal and philosophical dimensions of the use of the pornography.
The result was spread in 16 of March of 2010, when the Institute Witherspoon presented the document “ The Social Costs of Pornography: The Statement of Findings and Recommendations ” (The Social Costs of the Pornography: Discoveries and Recommendations).
 The psychiatric and therapeutic classes recently began to do certain observations regarding the costs of the consumption of the pornography in the conduct of an individual.
 The World-wide Association of Psychiatry, and scholars of the behavior human, in his proposal recently spread revision of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders for the first time included specific references to the pornography like possible factor in “ Hyper sexual Disorders ”.

 Three important observations on the document deserve to be done.
 First, he presents varied professional and specialized consensus on the social branching of the pornography of Internet, a consensus that is in divergence with good part of the opinions accepted on the question.
 Second, some implications of the empirical evidence presented in the document will provoke controversy, in part because of a libertarian predominant sensitivity as to the consumption of the pornography.

 At last place, it is necessary to do very much more inquiries, considering the relatively recent growth of the pornography of Internet and the challenge of obtaining reliable data of producers and consumers of the pornography of Internet.

 What supports good part of the public opinion on the pornography is the " great lie preached by producers, and who benefits, with the sale. They convince the world, that " consumption of pornography as harmless entertainment ", sexual kind expression or marriage helper. but, in the reality, it is not. Nevertheless, this way of seeing is complicated by the oni -presence of pornographic instant, realistic and cheeky materials, and the growing volume of empirical evidences that confirm the damages what the pornography was believing in that what produce and consume the pornography as well as in that what they live and work in the same residences, enterprises and communities where there are users of pornography.
 Inside these two observations important specific affirmations are, some of which can be found here and all of whom they are completely documented in The Social Costs of the Pornography: Discoveries and Recommendations.

 The oni- presençe of the pornography in the era of the Internet is accompanied by a growing volume of evidences that they indicate that, independent of the age and of the sex, all they are affected. To most of the social damages connected with the consumption of the pornography it seems to give rise of his psychological nature like an intense experience of training of conduct and concession of permission inside the context of apprenticeship.

 Another important point, it is the infidelity. The great quantity of foreign women, with other habits and values (not monks) easiness of the communication by e-mail or messages of text sent by cellphones made the easiest extramarital sex (and also easier of being discovered), what it contributed so that the rate of divorces rose for 30 %.

 The modernization in the last decades in the orient, fed by habits of the Occident and European, also shook some social oriental structures. At the same time, the political ascent " of the profit " mined the traditional religious authorities, doing so that the community was confused as for the moral questions.

 Empirical studies reveal the neuro science of the consumption of the pornography.
Some studies show that the use of the pornography mines the conjugal relationship and other intimate relationships of his users, be able to make the sexually incompetent men with a real partner, and for someone it can lead to growing attractions for with images and conducts of pornographic nature.

 Women not only face new expectations of sexual conduct, but also they face each other with more chances of divorce, infidelity and less happy marriages. Children, principally boys, are more inclined to the violence, aggression and sexual coercion of colleagues, are more sensitive to the sexual coercion for part of colleagues and adults. The adolescent girls are more inclined tolerating emotional, physical and sexual abuse. For last, though it is necessary to do many inquiries in this area, it seems that the pornography keeps on being a factor in the traffic of you are human for the sexual exploration.
 Briefly, the pornography has social costs for which they are wrapped.


 Of the document they include some of the recommendations: — a bigger conscientiousiness for part of the therapeutic community as for the damages of the consumption of the pornography as well as additional inquiries in this area; — bigger attention for part of the professionals of the education as for this volume of inquiries and the dangers and challenges what the adult adolescents are facing; — bigger interest for part of journalists on the consequences of the oni- presence of the pornography and an involvement of rigorous journalism investigative in the pornographic industry; — a rigorous answer of the industry deprived for with the use of the pornography in the environment of work and a conscientiousness gone to employees with problems of pornography; — the fall of the glamour" of the use of the pornography for part of the celebrities and of the popular culture; __ to do so that the pornography is made socially so unacceptable all that to smoke cigarettes, since the damages are bigger, more deep, and the consequence are disastrous, and prepare the land for laws and judicial processes that put an end in the dirty empire of billion dollars.

 — and finally, a commitment in this question for part of the local and federal governments, including: legislation in order that make the pornography illegal in the servants standards used by the common persons; I use the positions of influence for a public campaign to show the great damage.

conflits e cicles

There are some explanations to understand these thirty days feared before the inauguration of a new age. The anniversary nothing any more is of what the landmark of a new solar cycle in the life of a person, in other words, a new starting point, a revision of life, a glance for " other " asking: because he has and have not I?
 It is a moment signaling a new stage for his conscience, for the reality, which can be used to strengthen the positive characteristics. But, everything depends on "as" we administer this. The days that precede this renovation are exact the last ones of the previous cycle what the conscience was crossing.

 Jean Omar and professionals scholars of the human behavior,   remembers that the cycles we represent traineeships of all and any process of development and that " the end of a cycle " is characterized because of having a quality of time marked by the agitation, change, instability and disorder, when they were added up to the insecurity regarding the future that is because of coming. " This happens because it is in the end of the cycle, that the existent means of expression are sold out in his beginning (to " trial balance " of the actions, planned in a previous dwarf) and they show the residues responsible for his debauchery.
In abridgment, the time that precedes immediately the end of any cycle is characterized for the disorder and for the inversion of the values admitted in yours beginning ", explain the scholars of the human behaviour.

   For the technique of the revolution, each month of the year, counting from the date of the anniversary, it corresponds to a determined house or practical sector of the life of a person, who will be being lived more intensely.
 So, in the first month from the anniversary, the house is survived in the emphatic form month 1: the person is more centered in you herself and in his behavior.
 mês12: of the year correspond to the " evaluation ', and any evaluation, it sends to us to the suffering, since that we analyze, with selfishness, the sacrifices and donations that a person, for duty, fez to others, without waiting for rewards for this, or waiting.
 This act analytics is which caused great upsets "comportments", when we are in the adult phase, and with all the responsibilities, and hormonal changes taking place. With this, we suffer, and very much.

Arriving  to the point of "taking" certain attitudes precipitates, and you do not make positive (big is the upset in our minds, and even bigger, it is the wish of escaping, of us ourselves, of values and beliefs, which form our character) But, it can be different.
 Everything depends on "as" you understand the life.

 This is a moment, which we need to go out from the stage to contemplate more the world and, to be detached, in aid of that what they need an emotional help or practices, which only we, we will be able to carry out. Valuing this: his importance, in way where you live, you will feel better, while valuing that " many importantly  is"to serve " and " be  loved ".
 " It is a period of being an instrument for the good of others and not being so preoccupied by own causes ", affirm the scholars of the human behaviour.

 Since this generally does not happen, there comes the anguish, the emptiness and the sensation of bewilderment, when we reach the end of a stage ( mentally) In spite of not being a mysterious strength set free like many people they imagine, there are symbolic solid explanations for the crisis of the last month of an age, but this does not mean that negative things will happen only in the life of anybody; or what is impossible to deal well with this transition period.
 They all have free-judgement and can, still more, understanding the cycle, in which they are inserted, dedicate this moment to the reflection and evaluation of the finished stage, being prepared without so many scrambles for the near one, in the healthy form: at last, it is one more year of life, one more time in this school, where we are to learn, to serve, to be a usefulness, and " how much is bigger, lovingly, Our Allah (cc) and his blessing in our families, for our children, for our health, our work.
 More, one year without wars. one more year of life. one more year, complete.

Remember, always:
when we are childish, this in the question excitement, because we want to be , we want to trip, we want father, mother, some toys, the cake, the party
 when young persons, we have anxiety, because we want to be adults , we want the gifts , the friends, the party.
 when adults, we feel " depression ", because we want .. and we want and want....

In the next year, do marketing about,Advertise, as child does.
 Demand yours presents. Play with the life.
 Value his conquests, of faith, conquests of yours
 relatives, of yours work: all of them healthy yours conquests.
use your time for to prepare a meeting with the family.
Say to everybody. Be happy. Is more one year finished, with all protection from Allah (cc).

Educating to change

Educating to change

 We need, firstly, to change our concepts of which " the human being, in certain age, cannot change.
 We are creatures of Allah (cc), changeable, in all our characteristics.
 Only, the essence is not managed to "change" " of the evil "


To transform, inside for To change is the capacity of training. For example, the Prophet. Umar (RA), the period of ignorance before Islam gömerdi daughters buried alive. After accepting Islam as Umar (RA), the caliph, although installing the sack on his back, the poor need the items moved to their homes. Both of Omar (RA) is the same. Adjectives, vision, values,  have changed, with knowledge. In essence the same. Who have good soul , good heart, will to change. Who have no... may Allah to protect us from them.

Care , be careful with what come from out side to your heart, nafs and Satan use your eyes, for  General suggestions to our heart, for the wastage of our heart , right way. Things from dunnya are the food for Nefs ve Satan.
Heart zikr find the force. Food supply, to the heart,  dhikr of Allah. The soul food to eat, drink, wear .


To "transform" our self, it is necessary to think about some general concepts, as well as:

HUMAN VALUES

    * Education


People today are lost and confused wondering: Why is this happening? What should we do? But we are nimble, 'solved', and if we understand the problem, we will perform what are necessary to solve it. Persons who have personal weak values, are inclined giving up, but , why?

More and more personal positive values, the ' noble character ' are losing the real value (that is the correct ), and giving space for ' stereotypes ' that are '', today ' the example of ' beautiful, well, correctly. This is the valuable inversion, which causes ' social phobia ' 'stress' ' depression ' and the dismissal of the family, of homes, of the worthy, correct character.

We are the result of our existences,religion, culture,  relationships, influence relatives, it influences of the media, of the group, of the Internet (and his disposable, frivolous, impersonal relations)also,  past influences and sufferings. The technology influence: The same technology what it took from us of the caverns and what launched on the moon was able to show whole populations in fraction of seconds. The same conquests that provide us a more comfortable life, steal from us the opportunities of familiarity and dialog. And in these technological personal items in which the modernity introduced us, the family, especially, lost his most intimate dimensions and was turned into a mere aggregation of bodies that share the same ceiling, though in different hours.
Values are you pound what we build. What it does not mean that we will be so forever - we can today begin a new being, look more and other values and discard our vices. Values can be cultivated, of many people I quote those who are more relevant to drive a run: faith; ethics and respect; compassion and gratitude.

The human values are more investment profitable What can we do for the present but also for the future, because factor that determines success, happiness and truth are the values that believe in and apply. When we bring back the human values our professional relationships, social and ourselves, rights human automatically will become the laws upheld and followed by all, and their duty to Allah(cc) will be easy.

If everyone take care of their own personal values, the world where we live would be much better. Each individual and all collectively determine the future of humanity. The more we accept this personal challenge and responsibility, more safe and secure is the future. The choice is ours.

BROTHERHOOD/SISTERHOOD

Brotherhood/sisterhood is an approximation of equals, where they shared joys, triumphs, difficulties and failures. Brotherhood/sisterhood  is one under which the individual generosity never feel abandoned or deprived of something evil, but is nourished by sense of belonging.

Brotherhood/sisterhood  diversity are the hands that come together to create and share a task. Creates trust, which is the foundation of success in any endeavor cooperative. When we trust in others, fear, intolerance and discrimination dissolve.

The distrust destroys the proximity and therefore faith in another. Interactions between people and nations are often based on suspicion, with the result that we become inclined to believe the worst instead of better.

The trust is created by the awareness of the inherent value of each individual and simultaneously by the appreciation of diversity. The difference of each individual sum, not subtract, to the dignity and worth of the human race.

Often talked of having an "open mind", but now, the crisis of the Century XXI also need to have an open heart ". An open heart separates all the blame and complaint, forgive the past and is enthusiastic and brave enough to seize the opportunities offered by this. The opening of the heart removes any inclination to not understanding, because is willing to believe in the benevolence of another.

Brotherhood/sisterhood always share the two most precious gifts: your time and attention, also, to understand that, need , together to promove actions for to protect the world, to help the society , to help each to others, how is the command from Allah(cc), also, the  Sunna. These are the alpha and omega of a clear channel of communication in the way see things, the positions and differences may or may not be in agreement, but certainly will always to respect the differences.



KNOWLEDGE



Knowledge is understanding. The individual and society can move forward while maintaining an open at different levels and deeper knowledge.

Knowledge removes ignorance and its consequences, ie bias and stagnation.

Knowledge means change. When a new aspect of knowledge enters the mind human resembles a renaissance of consciousness: the birth of a new vision that broadens the horizons of understanding, empathy, and ultimately be.

A education system works for the development of the individual and society, when it is flexible and perceptive enough to accommodate and encourage such novelty and renewal. True education opens the human intellect to investigate, not inhibits, or censorship by the learning habits and dogmas to promote vested interests or biases.

The education (ie, learning for personal development) works at four levels:

1. Information (listen)

Listen and gather ideas, perspectives, techniques that can improve life and conference.

2. Knowledge (understanding)

Think deeply and clearly about these ideas and perspectives as a preparation to customize them and use them.

3. Wisdom (do)

When do we put into practice the knowledge absorbed, it is called virtue or value. These values are the basis for personal and collective dignity.

4. Truth (be)

the that the person puts into practice is what it becomes. Thus the values of peace, freedom, respect,

tolerance are the person and personal empowerment through that there is an increase genuine and the other positive.

We need all four levels, a true education, that is, to a full development of personality.

However, the problem is that people and systems tend to stay at the level of listening and thinking, acting without wisdom. For effecting change, we need pay equal attention to be wise and act wisely.

Wisdom is the art of living with quality through to see that any initiative to develop the individual or company must be accompanied by an updated interior, ie, a reconnection with the spiritual values innate and conscience.

This wisdom in action, gradually establishing a true person, a being who is totally in tune with their needs, rights and responsibilities and As with the other, a natural harmony, respectful, peaceful and benevolent.



DIGNITY



Dignity is closely related to consciousness and self-respect. Dignity means to consciously choose to live according to values universal spiritual and moral. Without values, our character, not on the basis needed to be able to weather the storms of greed, individualism and fragmentation. Without values, personality type is influenced and formed by short-term gains, which create conditions to establish themselves insecurity, fear and aggression.

Dignity is the ability to align my mental attitudes, my words and my actions with my true values and authentic. It is the ability to express these characteristics through my behavior, which will enrich my relationships and increase the quality of my interactions while at the same time, gives me a feeling of inner satisfaction and fulfillment.

If no self-respecting true, will make sure that our words and actions contribute to the daily emotional and spiritual development of us ourselves and all around us. This feeling of success and progress so the basis for respecting the values of all people.

There a multitude of principles and concrete rules, and a person who respects himself it learns to respect them and follow them, living according to them. A person with dignity does not compromise the values that you believe, because recognizes that this would reduce their quality of life and violate personal rights of others. We all have the right to peace, the internal happy relationships and a harmonious coexistence. However, these fundamental rights can be protected only when we have the courage to live according to moral values in which we believe firmly.

A person has dignity, to the extent that they are not selling for ephemeral comforts, for lust, positions and promises.

That that is worthy can sacrifice personal advantage to gain collective name - this is an honorable person.

the world needs such people - individuals who are able to heroically address the problems rather than away from them - people who are ready to do everything to ensure that standards of peace, respect and love of all people are kept.



F R A N T E R I D D E



Fraternity is the relationship that unites everyone in one big global family. Fraternity is the consciousness with which we can transcend all differences outside that separate us and divide us in black and white, rich and poor, Christians and Muslims. The list of differences can be infinite even between two persons of the same religion and same nationality.

With the attitude of brotherhood, all conflicts, all the fights and all the wars are replaced by understanding, tolerance and solidarity. This attitude comes easily when we understand that we are all interconnected and that the differences are not a threat. It is these differences that make world more beautiful, like a garden filled with a variety of flowers. However, if there is no tolerance, these same differences are the reason for conflict and fragmentation.

Fraternity is the message and the need for our era, because fraternal feelings automatically produce an atmosphere of mutual cooperation. Nothing great can be achieved without the element of cooperation. regardless of what the religion they belong, regardless of our citizenship, our color skin or our social status, we are all in the same boat. We are all citizens the same planet. We're all souls, children of the same God.

The fraternity can do wonders because it focuses our attention on the goodness inherent in each. To realize the goodness in ourselves and in others, we are able to build bridges that cross all boundaries, all limitations, discrimination and are able to join our hands and hearts together transform this world into a place a harmonious and happy.

 

EQUALITY



equal between people assumes that everyone has the same rights and also the same responsibilities. People know very well how to claim their rights, but how many are willing to commit to their responsibilities in same extent?

Mahatma Gandhi said that our rights are nothing more than the result of responsibilities properly fulfilled. While we are at the gates of the Century XXI, in many places around the world the conditions of injustice and inequality still exist, either between men and women, between social classes, among religious groups or between nations. 0 individual has been identified with situations limited and social positions that give a sense of superiority. Thus, people have lost respect for his fellow men and with this, also lost his consciousness. People can explore and stifle the and still others may justify his actions with arguments intelligent. However, everything has its inevitable consequences.

The arrogance that comes from the feeling of superiority causes damage, or destroy completely the individuality of others and violates their rights fundamental.

The attitude of equality in a group or a society nurtures spirituality. The genuine spirituality creates a sense of belonging, of being a great family. In one family there are different personalities, but all feel to be the members of a group. All people have essentially the same needs, the same desires for peace of mind, of unselfish love, respect and happiness.

The equality is naturally created when we are inwardly happy with us same with our lives and when we need no external approval for our own values.

The individual freedom also forms the basis of equality. Freedom of what? The greater freedom is the freedom of our own ego. It is necessary in get rid of wrong perceptions and beliefs limited. It is necessary reorder our values and our principles because they determine the quality of our lives.



JUSTICE



Justice is the name given to the universal law or power that maintains the rights and safeguard nature of the individual against exploitation, abuse and violence. Justice in taught to respect individual rights and freedoms: when we do not respect the rights of others in their personal expression and happiness, is simply a matter of time before we lose our own too right. Also, participate or be indifferent to any kind of violence with others, robs us of our dignity and rights.

justice maintains a balance of rights and dutyes ( responsabilities) , not only the human species, but also of nature, is equality for all. Very often forget the rights of Mother Nature, whose presence sustains us. So that their right to peace and harmony has been often trampled by humanity in the name of progress.

Justice is naturally maintained when rights are balanced with the responsibilities, otherwise there is an insistence on personal rights without reference to the rights of others.

The Violence destroys the purity of justice. Sometimes, revolutions against oppression take an escalation of violence in full the moment, while climbing to power, the oppressed abuse their positions and revenge is camouflaged falsely by the name of justice. This underlying motives of justice with revenge, hatred or greed is a contradiction. The blind justice created by the people is destructive and preferred, whereas the true justice, as an inherent principle of life, keep peace and order, is universal. No human being has the right to take justice into their own hands.

The True justice can be maintained only when all cooperate on mutual respect for the welfare of the individual, community and nature.



FREEDOM
IT IS NOT A LICENTIOUSNESS




A of the highest aspirations of people in the world today is being free, but with carefull ,  having like ' principal value ' ' the moral aspects. Freedom are not Licentiousness.   The People want the freedom to lead a life with purpose, to be healthy and prosperous. Freedom is a precious gift that enables a experience a feeling of release and there is no limit, as if we were all one. Freedom allows us to choose, at any time about the direction of our lives and our own development.

The Freedom can be understood wrongly as a gimmick that allows me to do 'What I like, when I want, with whom I like. " True freedom is exercised and experienced when everyone has the same rights equally. Violate the rights of one or more, under any pretext, is a violation of freedom. Only when there is full freedom rights are balanced with choices and responsibilities are balanced with conscience attending the religious beginnings.

Th world will not be free of wars and injustices to people becoming freed from their egoism. The 'iron chains' that stifle people and nations, will only be broken when the 'current' anger, selfishness, greed and violence break. Freedom means to conquer our own feelings of hostility, revenge and morbid desire. Such freedom has a effect of liberation for all. Freedom to provide individual freedom in our relationships and interactions.



That who is RESPONSABILE is also free, because it will make good use of everything that is available to him. the responsible use of natural resources, weather, relationships, wealth etc.. depends on the level of response we have to breast- with them. 0 ensures compliance and protects an enduring freedom. When we lose our respect for something, then we went to his slave mentally emotionally, economically or physically.



PEACE



The challenge to peace appears regularly on the question: "Humans are, by nature, violent or nonviolent? "If the answer is: they are violent, so the concept of peace becomes nonexistent. Experiencing peace mind has become a popular cliche. But what does this mean? People say who want peace in the world, but what kind of peace you want? Can to have peace, who don't respect law from Allah (cc)? Who will to have peace, without to respect their family and others that need of them?

Peace is the foundation, the main block on which a company raises functional and healthy. Peace is the prominent feature of what we call a civilized society 'and the character of a society can be seen by consciousness conference members. A civilization may be for paradise or demonic, depending on the state of consciousness of its members and their actions for to be in the right way. Consciousness creates their cultural norms, values, systems and consciousness can also turn culture.

Bring back peace to the social sectors, economic, political as well as others in society would require notice it at two levels: external and the procedure.

Educate for peace, resolve conflicts, as well as all peace initiatives that have take seriously a critical engagement between the individual peace and world peace.

Through creative insight, the individual can find within itself a vast potential for peace and tranquility. With this experience, the process of internal disarmament starts automatically: the release of anger, fear and hatred. Inner peace is then reflected in the behavior, actions and personal relationships and thereby creates new social patterns. The experience of Personal Peace makes the idea of world peace a reality as possible.


R E S P E C T



Respect is the natural consequence of self-respect. A good way to win Respect is knowing our own worth and be considerate towards the value of others. Respect is based on the understanding that each individual is a unique being, a spiritual being, a soul. Respect comes from understanding the their innate worth and rights that every individual and society possess.

A Since the individual has reached a state of dependence on external factors, instead of relying on their own inner powers, shall require the respect based on external references, such as social status, nationality, religion or popularity. The more respect is given by some external factor, plus the desire for recognition by others, too increases. And the greater the desire, the more we get this sense of 'victim' and thus lose self-respect and respect for others.

The power of discrimination establishes a respectful environment in which there is attention the quality of intentions, attitudes and behaviors. To the extent where there is the power of humility in respect to itself - and the wisdom provides that to be fair to others - there will be success in the form of enhance the individuality, appreciate diversity and lead to complete task consideration.

The  balance between humility and selfless service in autorespeito Results and protects the arrogance and narrow-minded mind. The arrogance damages or destroys the uniqueness of others and violates their fundamental rights. Such temperament also hurts the person who violates the respect of others.



TOLERANCE



The world, our great human family can be described as a large tree with many branches, twigs and buds. Every nation represented by a branch is a brother or sister who has her own family. When the historical origins are seen through the family members in a family tree, is possible to realize the complementarity between all people, which demonstrates that that coexistence is possible.

The tolerance is the goal of peaceful coexistence. Due to tolerance, recognize the individuality and diversity, removes disguises and disables tension created by ignorance. Provides the opportunity to discover and remove stereotypes and stigmas associated with people regarded as different because of their nationality, religion or origin.

By have an open mind and genuine understanding, a tolerant person attracts someone different and to accept and adjust to living with that person, demonstrates tolerance in a practical way. As a result, relationships thrive. Tolerance is an inner strength that enables the individual to confront and transform misunderstandings and difficulties. It's like a shield that allows us to stay full, happy and not be threatened by people or circumstances.

A tolerant person is like a tree with fruit abundance. Even when playing or hitting rocks with a stick, the tree bears its fruit in return. "Tolerance is not concession, not indifference. Tolerance knowledge is another. It is mutual respect through mutual understanding. Let's throw out the old myths and understand what is happening. 0 man not is violent by nature. The intolerance is not in 'our genes'. 0 fear and ignorance are the root cause of intolerance, and its standards can be found early in the psyche human. "


May Allah (cc) to have compassion and piety of our, and to guide us, always for the straight path. inshAllah. amin

reflexions about What is a woman muslim

Women   Powerful  x Women of Faith VS Powerful

the Muslim woman are not so different.
the difference are in her intention about their acts.
the values.

DIFERENCES:

The  powerful woman works out every day to keep your body in shape,
but  woman of strong faith prostrate in prayer to keep her soul in   way.

The powerful woman have not afraid of anything,
 but a woman of strong faith  shows courage in the midst of your fears.

The  powerful woman does not let you take the best,
but a woman of faith Powerful gives his best for everyone.

The powerful woman makes mistakes and are happy, sepaking "i am human",
but   powerful woman of faith realize that mistakes, without to want, and when know about her wrong acts, have big afraid for to do the right,  also blessings of life         of  Allah , because she learning, and ask for refuge in Allah (cc)  for dont to have wrongs , in the future .

The  powerful woman is definitely moving, without to think in others, or to ask ,
but a woman of strong faith,  ask to her husband, before, and ask to Allah(cc), the refuge, and   when she falls, has sabr(Have faith in Allah (cc)  that everything will improve or change), and do what is right to her husband and she to stay in right way.

The  powerful woman brings the picture of confidence on her face and body, but the woman   of powerful faith in her face carries the picture of  the strong power from her faith in Allah, and the sweet eyes with modesty, bashfulness, also , pleasure in her actions,  trying to learning and  to have good characther.


The powerful woman, has in his work, and social way, a way to attend his wishes of "lust",
but, the woman with the strength of the faith, works in order that his husband helps, in his conquests, paw the good to be of the family, to collaborate with the Ummah , also her duty in the islam.

The   powerful woman strives to look beautiful and perfect, but the woman  of strong faith know that nothing is more attractive than the ornament of faith   and the beauty of taqwa (Religiosity, righteousness) eloquence and kindness, shame, her honor ,  dignity, obedience to the laws from Allah(cc) , obedience to her husband, and to help the ummah to grown is , too, her beautiful.


The powerful woman has heart of the persons distributes the "lust" in, looking for " goods " for her own,  
 but, the woman with strength in the faith, search sows " the faith ' and the "rectitude" between brothers and sisters.



The powerful woman has learned that faith is strong enough to face the  her  journey alone;  but of mighty faith has faith enough to know what is  on her journey she will become strong, with the protection of Allah (cc) and with the support from  her husband.

Source: NOOR     
 An-Nissa


> EQUALITY:
The powerful woman, the  woman of strong faith, THEY WILL  BE OLD AND TO DIE.
the two will have to answer for Allah (cc) for her acts in the life.

ALLAH..BE WITH US ..

OH Allah,  we are your slaves.. all the time you send

blessin to us, to enjoy in  ... ohhh Allah , please, protect my true family from this .. what have and we cannot to see... please .. protect us.. leave us from enemies. show to us the true way, from you, to you... please   Allah... now again . no... please Allah... give all protectors,  for  to  leave us from the  others negative forces

that, all the time make us to do mistakes. inside us and out side.. leave us from this fear.. what we have inside us and make us  toleave the right ways, to leave yours blessing, and to leave alone who love us so much, with the love from you..... Allah, please... please...you know what happen again.. please help us.. amin  ... a

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Allahu Allah by Ahmad Mansouri with ENGLISH TRANSLATIONS!!!

Allahu Allah by Ahmad Mansouri with ENGLISH TRANSLATIONS!!!

Syrian Mufti & Ashoora

A Mufti in Syria talks about the fear of Sunni leaders about their people becoming Shia.Syrian Mufti & Ashoora
Arabic lecture with English subtitles hope you listen carefully to the words been said.

Promote the goodnes

If you are between two persons, who talk, who attack one other one. Do not stop helping. But, do so that the dialog, it prevails between them.
 Do so that one remembers of the teachings of Allah (cc) in our lives.
 Never, abandon someone. Do everything for brothers and sisters, be in peace, together, in union

Our Allah( cc) never put 2 together , for nothing.
but, we never can to forget that The cursed devil, that Allah (cc) protects us from him, is ALL THE TIME,  in our lives, in our mind, trying to divert what was , to separate what was " for Allah (cc) united

Sura 93: "By the hour morning and evening when you are calm, that your Lord has not forsaken or you hated. And indeed the Hereafter is better for you than the present. Soon you decorate your Lord, so that you meet. Perhaps not find you an orphan and you shelter? Not find thee wandering and you sent? Do not think you need and enriched? Therefore, the fatherless, not oppress, nor repulses the beggar, but the bounty of thy Lord in your speech ",

"Thou cloaked! Arise and warn! And praises to your Lord! And thy garments! And all abomination shun! And do not expect any increase (in interest), but perseveres in the way of thy Lord. "


 example in normal case: 

When great companions fight, and one is going to complain for a third one ... we should never have done the reading from what: that what complains, is trying ' to be removed ' of other.
 This one,  is yes, trying to understand his/her mistakes, and looking for ' help ' so that all the evil is dissolved.
 He/she is looking for the ' understanding of the facts.
 He/she is looking ' to try to understand ' his/her mistakes.
 He/she is trying ' help ', with an intermediary, so that everything is well, again.


claim sometimes, or normally, a child, or young person, or up to the same adults..
 they fight .. but, they can to talk..


so, if you are between 2 persons, promote the Dialog



The right is; DIALOG DIALOGS and DIALOG.
 After all, we are the only beings, able to reason.
 
 Big healthy the gifts of Allah(cc) in our lives.
 
OUR DUTY is: TO BE ABLE TO USE THESE GIFTS!
 

Never forgetting: From Allah (cc) came ... to Allah (cc) we will return, inshAllah.

BE CAREFULL WITH WHAT YOUR EYES LOOK AND THE PREJUDICE.. WE ARE NOTHING!

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 WE ARE SOUL. AND THIS IS IMPORTANT: WHICH TYPE OF SOUL WITH ARE.

                             RECOGNIZE ALLAH CREATIONS, AND BE GREATIFULL

                             BECAUSE OF THE LIFE, AND THE LOVE FROM ALLAH TO YOUR LIFE

                             WE DONT KNOW OUR TOMORROW........................................................

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