One should not obey anyone against the commands of Allah cc. 

Is Primary Obligation of a muslim care each other and many more between those are companions partners in this life by Allahcc Wills

~hz ALI (ra.)

 bismillaharrahmanarrahim

OBJECT or HUMAN-1

Is a woman a sex OBJECT or a HUMAN?

In the name of Allah who is The Most Merciful and Forgiving,

   ALLAH has no start and no end. He is startless and endless. He wanted to be known, created universe, angels and jinns. Let’s read the from Holy Qur’an:

“And [mention, O Muhammad], when your Lord said to the angels, "Indeed, I will make upon the earth a successive authority." They said, "Will You place upon it one who causes corruption therein and sheds blood, while we declare Your praise and sanctify You?" Allah said, "Indeed, I know that which you do not know."

And He taught Adam the names - all of them. Then He showed them to the angels and said, "Inform Me of the names of these, if you are truthful."

They said, "Exalted are You; we have no knowledge except what You have taught us. Indeed, it is You who is the Knowing, the Wise."

He said, "O Adam, inform them of their names." And when he had informed them of their names, He said, "Did I not tell you that I know the unseen [aspects] of the heavens and the earth? And I know what you reveal and what you have concealed."

And [mention] when We said to the angels, "Prostrate before Adam"; so they prostrated, except for Iblees(Satan). He refused and was arrogant and became of the disbelievers.

And We said, "O Adam, dwell, you and your wife, in Paradise and eat therefrom in [ease and] abundance from wherever you will. But do not approach this tree, lest you be among the wrongdoers."

But Satan caused them to slip out of it and removed them from that [condition] in which they had been. And We said, "Go down, [all of you], as enemies to one another, and you will have upon the earth a place of settlement and provision for a time."

Then Adam received from his Lord [some] words, and He accepted his repentance. Indeed, it is He who is the Accepting of repentance, the Merciful.

We said, "Go down from it, all of you. And when guidance comes to you from Me, whoever follows My guidance - there will be no fear concerning them, nor will they grieve.

And those who disbelieve and deny Our signs - those will be companions of the Fire; they will abide therein eternally."

(Surat Al-Baqarah/30-39)

   So the examination of the world life started. Adam a.s. was getting bored alone in paradise, and Allah created Havva r.a.(Eve).

“ Allah created our mother Havva from Adam a.s.’s left rib bone.Meanwhile Adam a.s. was sleeping. When he woke up and saw Havva like a sprig, his heart flowed to her (felt weak to her) and extended his hand. Angels shouted:  “O Adam, don’t touch her!..You are not married yet!..”

After then they got married. And he had to salute Our Prophet Mohamad (PBOH) 3 times as a mehr (marriage debt which men have to pay women when they marry in Islam). That was the begining of the first marriage beside ALLAH and in front of Mohamadial truth. Thus, marriage gained an exalted meaning with saluting Mohamad Mostapha (Peace Be Upon On Him), and it filled with mercy, blessing and enlightened manifastations.” ¹

   As we see, they had not touch untill they got married. In my opinion that’s a protection of woman from sexual disturbs by men and gives woman a worth. A woman is a worthfull asset which needs to be protected. Because she is going to be a place for new generations and she will raise new generations who mean the future of the world. That’s why woman is very very important.

 Now let’s come to nowadays…We are living in a very capitalist consuming age. Consuming our energy, happiness, friendship, love exct. most of our good habits and properties just for some money, some worldly goods -the world which is going to end very soon-. We all are going to die one day. But the materials of these age which are used for satan’s job, such as tv, internet, newspapers, magazines..exct. all of them(only which Works for satan) expose only worldy things, especially for women. They expose, “you have to be beautiful, so buy these make up materials(which costs alot and very harmfull to body), you have to be like a model, so go to gym, lose some weight, go to beauty saloons..for who?You have to be beautiful for who? Your husband or other men in the world? When you go to work, you make up, try best to be beautiful and when you are home with your husband you don’t care. That makes men look for other women, especially women outside near their work or workmates. That destroys families, women. Divorcing is getting really high. Meaning of a collapse of  a family, it is a start of domino Stone effect and may lead destroy of community.

  In 1930s there becomes a top model exhibition all over the world. And the winner becomes from Turkey. European organisators celebrate that and they say: “ –laughing-We succeeded to open hair of Ottoman’s girl(remove hijab). Now next is very easy…” They killed about 250.000 Ottoman soldiers in Gallipoli and then lots of wars, they couldnt kill Muslim Turkey. And they started to destroy woman, remove hijab, destroy Islamic Moral values and now they got a very long way. We have to wake up, and start warning women all over the world:

  “Dear Women of The World,

  ALLAH (The One God) created you for a very honored job: “to be a MUM”. But satan and his soldiers want to use you for their own worldly dishonorable goals. They put your naked body photos all over the streets, websites, tvs..exc. They want to make “Money” from your body and beauty. Don’t let yourself be used please. I beg you all women. You don’t have to show your beauty in public. Allah gave you this beauty to increase love between you and your husband, make kids and build happy families. Don’t let women be a sex object or a material to make money. You are a HUMAN who has feelings, cant be sold. Hide your pearls to foreign men, just give and show it who deserves it; JUST your husband.”

To be continued…

Abdurrahman SARMIS, MD 

Istanbul-15.04.2012

1: “Paradise in The World, PEACEFUL FAMILY NEST”,Osman Nuri TOPBAS