do not be selfish, or shame in do do the well to who need u. do not fall in devil games insie of your mind, for to desviat others... and , also, your soul . do not take misunderstadings from what u had not enought dialogue for get understandings (bcs of yours projects about your self,only). share what what happening and hear other what are asking you be help. Allah swt know everything what we do not know.
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Abu Hurairah ra said that Rasulullah saw said : "Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the greatest falsehood. Do not try to find fault each other, do not spy on one another, do not to vie with one another, do not envy one another, do not be angry with one another, do not turn away from one another,
and be servants of Allah, brothers to one another, as you have been enjoined.
A Muslim is the brother of a muslim, he does him no wrong, nor does he let him down, nor does he despise him.
Fear of Allah is here, fear of Allah is here, and he pointed to his chest. It is evil enough that a Muslim should look down on his brother. For every muslim is sacred to one another : his blood, his honour, and his property. Allah does not look at your bodies or your forms, or your deeds, but He looks at your hearts". ( Bukhari, Muslim )
Imam Ja’far as-Sadiq (a.s.) relates from the Holy
Prophet (S) that he said:
“When people claim to possess knowledge but do not act
upon it, when they claim to profess love but harbour malice in their hearts and
sever relations, in such a condition Allah removes mercy from them and makes
them undiscerning to logic.
(Bihār al-Anwār)
The Holy Prophet (S) says:
“Among the various sins, injustice and cutting off
relationships are such that one who commits these is punished in this world
itself. Apart from this the punishment for these sinners has already been
prepared in the Hereafter.”
(Mustadrak)
From Abu Ayyub al-Anshari : Rasulullah saw said : " It is not right for a man to abandon a brother (sister) for more than three days". Sin to abandon when is facing problems ( Bukhari, Muslim )
From Abu Hurairah : Rasulullah saw said : "He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah". ( Ahmad, Tirmidhi )
.Jabir said that Rasulullah saw said : " If one makes excuses to his brother, but he does not excuse him, or accept his apology, he is as sinful as one who takes an unjust tax " ( Baihaqi )
From Abu Hurairah : Rasulullah saw said : " The strong man is not the one who is strong in wrestling, but the one who controls himself in anger " ( Bukhari, Muslim )
Abdullah b. Umar ra said that Rasulullah saw said : " The best companion with Allah swt is he who behaves best to his companions ( Tirmidhi )
Ibn Umar ra said that Rasulullah saw said : "Each of you is a guardian, and each of you will be asked about your guardian- ship. So each of you is a guardian, and each of you will be asked about your guardianship". ( Bukhari, Muslim )
" Make things easy, and do not e make them difficult, and give good tidings and do not make people ay " run away ( Bukhari )
From Ibn Umar ra : Rasulullah saw said : "The muslim who meets with people and endures any harm they may do is better than he who does not mix with them and does not endure any harm they may do". ( Tirmidhi )
From Sufyan b. Asad al-Hadrami ra : I heard Rasulullah saw say : " It is a great treachery (to Allah swt) that you tell your brother something he accepts as truth from you, but you are lying" ( Abu Dawud )
Muadh b. Jabal ra said that he heard Rasulullah saw say : Allah swt said : "My love is due to those who love each other for my sake, who sit with each other for my sake, who visit one another for my sake, who spend on each other for my sake" ( Malik )
Abu Dzar ra again asked for more advice, Rasulullah saw said : "Let your own faults prevent you from criticizing others and do not try to find fault with others, because you commit those faults yourself. It is enough to prove you guilty that you should find in others such faults as you yourself posess, though you may not be aware of them, and that you should find in others such misdeeds as you yourself commit".
Abu Dzar ra : Rasulullah saw said : " When you cook soup add more water, remembering your neighbours " ( Muslim ) It means: take time t the others what are near you becaus of Allah swt wills, even if are far.
Abu Abdullah, who was called Abd al-Rahman Thaubah b Yujdud , the maula of Rasulullah saw said : Rasulullah saw said : " The best dinar a man spends is the dinar he spends on his family, and the best dinar he spends on his riding best in the path of Allah swt, and the must best dinar he spends with his companions (brothers, sisters, copanions, partners, those are facing hard times, poors, peoples living in kufar land, made by Allah swt to this life) in the path of Allah swt ". ( Muslim )